I think you could use some more paragraphs in your writing; it's pretty hard to read.

You express a lot of ideas, and do not digest it enough for the reader. It is also hard to follow if you are writing from the perspective of the man or woman whom is involved in an arranged marriage or is dating.

First, consider the notion of Marriage in general; is it outdated? Is it mostly religious and antiquated in and of itself, expecting 2 people will remain devoted to each other their entire lives?

That said, it is possible to meet someone you like, enjoy, and may even fall in love with; but are they suitable for long term commitment? Will they support you as an equal? Are they trust worthy?

So many considerations; so it's a journey, and it depends on 2 people's values as well. Sometimes I think it's more realistic to expect you will not be with the same person your entire life, and try to enjoy the one you are with today, and try to have a family with someone you consider very solid and sensitive to your needs.