I want to have a talk with U 我想和你好好谈谈

lucknie (63)in #cn • 7 years ago (edited)

一字一句，用我的方式，填满区区几十年♥

Hello,my dear friends of Steemit community !

社区的朋友们，大家好!

有时候，有口无心
有时候，心口不一
有时候，有心嘴笨
大多时候，力不从心

最害怕听到有人跟我说，“和你无法沟通”/“不知道怎么回复你”的话。听到的刹那间竟也能产生许多千头万绪，辗转反侧，测夜难眠。回忆过程的哪个环节出了纰漏，也反思自己与他人共处时的问题，更加会怀疑起自己的沟通能力。

每次实话实说，你说他伤了你
每次油嘴滑舌，你说他骗了你
每次声东击西，你说他烦了你

但其实，是你们之间沟通都有问题。我想和你谈谈，那你能不能也心平气和，不要夹杂着负面情绪与我交流。不要总是把“不理你了，跟你没话说”、“我和你有代沟，说不到一块”等等拒绝一切沟通，阻碍交流的消极言语挂在嘴边？这不仅仅很容易伤害到对方，也直接影响到彼此之间的关系。唯有敞开心扉，才能疏通一切可清除的障碍！

我茶泡好了，能不能坐下聊聊那些你还没聊过的事儿？我想和你谈谈

感谢您一直对我的支持与鼓励，喜欢我的文章就请关注我吧！lucknie

Sometimes, inadvertently
Sometimes, the heart is different
Sometimes, be stupid
Most of the time, powerless

Most afraid to hear someone say to me, "and you can not communicate" / "do not know how to reply to you" words. Hear the moment actually can produce many multitude, tossing and turning, night sleep. Memories of which part of the process out of the flaws, but also reflect on their own coexistence with others when the problem, more will doubt from their own communication skills.

Every time tell the truth, you said he hurt you

Every time you talk nonsense, you said he cheated you

Every time you hit the West, you said he was annoying you

But in fact, there is a problem between your communication. I would like to talk to you, then you can not be calm, do not mixed with negative emotions and I exchange. Do not always "ignore you, with you no words", "I and you have generation gap, can not say a" and so refused to all communication, impede the exchange of negative words? This is not only easy to hurt each other, but also directly affect the relationship between each other. Only open your heart, in order to clear all the obstacles can be cleared!

My tea so good, can not sit down and talk about those things you have not talked about? I want to talk to you

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