格局越小,计较越多 | 月旦评

in #cn6 years ago (edited)

我原来是事必躬亲:家里下水道堵了,挽起袖子就去折腾;配个电脑,前期先研读各种测评,一定要攒个顶级性价比配置的电脑;什么电器坏了,尽量先是自己维修,实在是没辙了再送修。这样做的原因一部分是有点乐趣在里面,更重要的原因是——省钱!

以上门维修为例,往往一个简单故障,报修的话,上门费50,检修费若干,最后简单动动手指几百大元到手。我靠,赚钱真TM容易啊!

只是现在,类似的想法越来越淡。要买电脑,直接品牌机,够用就行;家里啥东西坏了,第一反应是打电话找厂家维修。

是现在有钱了吗?其实没有。家庭收入并没有显著提高,人也还是那几口人,外在条件基本没有变化,到底是什么改变了我原有的行为方式呢?

之前我认为是年纪大了,精力有限,在乎的东西越来越少。现在细想想,这应该不是主因。

主要原因是做人的格局受到影响,默默地有了变化。自己辛辛苦苦花了时间,还不一定能解决问题,结果羊肉没吃成,还惹得一身骚。不如请专业的人来解决,花钱买时间,而自己用这省下的时间,做一些更有意义的事情,比如陪伴家人。

我是个顶真的人,原来是只要有理,铢锱必较。我爱人是个马大哈,什么时候都是没心没肺开开心心,一切都不在乎的样子。

我们相识十七年,结婚十四年。结婚头几年,我总想着改变她,只是一直未遂。反倒是最近这几年,我受她的影响越来越大,逐步踏上了“不计较”的列车。

因为计较到最后,我才发现,格局越大,越不计较,过得越开心。

虽然老马长得丑,但是他说得美:

心中有敌,天下皆敌人;心中无敌者,无敌于天下。

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要的就是这种格局。

 


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欧耶!你觉得博主的格局足够大,要他投 5000 SP你去花?开心😃。

格局大,可惜木有钱……

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夫人润物细无声啊👍
真的是观念转变了,时间和金钱的排序变换了,有时候会豁然开朗(๑•͈ᴗ•͈)❀送花给你

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哈哈,小时候太穷,没办法😂

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