Hi @rivalhw, I hope you're doing good. Your topic is very important for the married people of Asia. You pointed out some genuine issues b/w wife and your mother. This is very common issue in Pakistan, India, bangladesh China etc. In Europe and America this issue is not as prominent. Anyways I totally agree with you that relation is beyond everything else. In short MBTI is the key in this regard. Just google and go for it. I bet by understanding each person's personality in your family you will be able to tackle them accordingly. Regards!