Couldn't agree more, if its a situation where she wants to go see Santa than that is fine by me and we will. There were several groups that had both parents and children not wanting to be there. I ran into my neighbors who had come to see Santa and opted out after seeing the line. It was good to see them be reactive to the situation instead of forcing an outcome. Something I try to do as often as possible, to quote Bruce Lee "be like water".

Thanks for the comment!