How interesting - Derek and I were talking about this just last night. He and I are preparing ourselves for when it's time to have 'the talk' with our girls. My parents did not speak to me about sex so I learned everything from school and friends. What I did learn from family is that sex is for after marriage and it was not communicated that it was pleasurable. Our ultimate goals are to educate and to create an open dialogue. As you stated, it's a ongoing conversation and we want to be sure that our daughters know they can come to us at anytime with no shame or guilt.

• Kareen