Undoubtedly, one reaps what you sow, if you preach negative things you are more likely to get negative returns, the mido is not all bad, many times feeling afraid helps us to protect ourselves, human beings apparently learn much more of the errors that of the successes, the important thing is to be self-critical and to know how to accept the errors, there are those who, despite making mistakes, do not take charge of their own mistakes.
Excellent post dear friend @krnel, invites a great reflection.
I wish you a beautiful weekend