I feel that I learned something important today! I'm one of the people that strive for perfection (is limited areas, as I don't have opinion on areas that don't matter me) and in that strive I try to "push things to happen"

This is sad yet true...

We may push hard, we may do everything we can, we may give everything we got and still, things may not happen as we want them to happen.

Now, I hope that I take a wise look on things before starting them. It's wise/better to let things happen without interfering.