You deserve to be happy! I actually listened to a guy living next door yesterday beating up his wife. I still don't know what to make of it. I just phoned the police. Today she is happy and all lovey dovey with him. I wish I could beat the living daylights out of him. You do not deserve to be treated this way. Pack up and go. He does not deserve you! And children adapt. That is life. One day they will know and understand.