lol, not at all. Many people are self focused, and often are in the process of formulating their next response or waiting impatiently for the other to finish so they can get it out. Some take it that extra step and just cut you off before you can finish, lol. You can see this usually in others eyes as they lose focus as the words being spoken seems to push them away.

I value my words (despite sometimes being wordy) and prefer not to squander them on those who hold no value for them. This includes loved ones. If they want to know, they will ask, and even then one must be careful to know if it is a heartfelt question or the polite one that will produce an inward groan in their heart if there is a problem, lol.

The bubble of our perception can be quite fragile, and many seem in need of others energy constantly to support theirs. Not a bad thing in itself until it becomes draining :)