Left an LGBT discord server. Trans person didn't understand why "hatred of trans people" was so high lately, and didn't like my answer and got told "stay in your lane". This is why echo chambers are harmful. Not returning.

in #busy7 years ago (edited)

Not mentioning any names nor any discord servers, I don't follow that callout culture BS. I was originally very reluctant to actually join an LGBT discord server, even though I'm gay and intersex (male hermaphrodite).

I'll remember that next time I get invited to an LGBT community or server. Just laugh and decline like I do with furry communities despite being a furry as well.

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You didn't leave. You got kicked.
You had far more rope to hang yourself with than you deserved. I got easily a dozen complaints about your conduct, and if I hadn't been advocating for you, you would have been kicked weeks ago.
"You're not really a woman. You're a bad ass chick with a gun."
For one glaring example.
Trying to explain what transgender women should do to improve their public image is straight-up talking out of school, but instead of just learning that lesson when I told you exactly that, you doubled down.
You better be sure you want to paint yourself as the victim here, 'cause those of us who know the truth are prepared to shine bright lights on it.

No, I actually left the server. You can claim I was kicked all you want, doesn't stop the fact that I literally left on my own accord. I don't deal with bigots and I should've thought twice before joining that server. I don't have a problem with trans people, not in the slightest, but if you can't handle the truth about how people perceive the trans community based on the actions of what's become sensationalized by conservative alt media, then that's on you.

"You're not really a woman. You're a bad ass chick with a gun."

So that there by itself caused the perpetually offended and butthurt to throw a fit eh? Semantics. If that alone caused offense, good riddance, I don't give a fuck. You lot aren't my first rodeo, take mind to that, I also don't give two fucks about Steemit either, another thing to keep in mind, so go ahead and waste your voting power on trying to downvote me into oblivion for wrongthink.

I don't give two shits about Steem, SBD, cryptocurrencies in general really and I really don't give two shits about my reputation score here either. But hey, if you want to prove conservative talking heads on alt media correct, be my guest, I'll be happy to document it and send your activities over to them, I'm sure they'll have a field day with it.

You had far more rope to hang yourself with than you deserved.

I've given you guys far more of a chance to leave a good impression than you apparently deserved likewise. Now begone feminazi.

Welp, if there was ever any doubt the ban was justified - and there really wasn't - the use of "feminazi" sure seals the deal.

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No, it wasn't, "That there by itself." I don't expect you to admit when you fucked up, but this is as nice as I'm gonna play if you wanna keep it up.

e.o you can ban someone after they've left the server dipshit.

FYI to you dicks out there, harassment by proxy is still harassment. Might want to consider not being gigantic fucking bullies. Now I see why people fucking hate the majority of us. Seems the LGBT community is a huge bully, now I'm even starting to hate us.

This is known in child psychology as attention-seeking behavior.

Dude, seriously. I have screenshots of all your comments here.

So maybe I'm not the bully just because I won the fight you started.

I don't know if it's multiple personality disorder, or you're just a pathological liar. But you need professional psychiatric help.

Yes, bully the individual that's already known for having issues of self destruction, depression and isolation. You didn't think that through did you? You're a bully. Own it.

Here's a guy who claims to be intersex but didn't know what a karyotype test was until I defined it for him, talking down to "trans-setters". Get fucking real you poser piece of shit.

I barely know you @outtheshellvlog but I have seen you in the LGBT Discord server as "cryptodeaf" and from the comments I saw you making, many of them were very abrasive. My guess is that you experience these kinds of interactions on a regular basis in life? I'm not here to give you any hate... but just wanted to point out that maybe if this IS a recurring theme in your life, to analyze it a bit more and see if maybe YOU are attracting these kinds of interactions in your life.

From reading through the comments below, it seems like you thrive on this type of negativity. Even though you may not like it... I think you crave it, it's what is comfortable for you. Yes? No?

IN YOU FACE doesn't tend to make many friends.

Usually not. My response was about the whole transtrender thing where people try on being trans like a fad just because it's the "in" thing at the moment. Back 14 years ago, it was being gay that was "in" and "cool" and now it's "trans". Same crap, different community appropriated this time. The trendy fucks actually harm the trans community because they are insufferable.

arrogantly condescending comes to mind...

Unfortunately, my fault for giving the LGBT community another shot, also my mistake on giving the deaf community another shot. I always run into that crowd of folks that I simply cannot get along with.

While I don't agree with your views (I'm trans and think people should be more tolerant and accepting of so-called "transtrenders"), I disagree with the decision to kick you and I'm sorry that you encountered such hostility.

He didn't experience any hostility. As a matter of fact, the Mods and I were far more tolerant of his repeated provocations than we probably should have been.

"you're speaking out of school" I took what was said as extremely hostile. You may not see it, but I saw it. If you lot didn't intend it to be hostile, you failed at it and gave me an extremely negative opinion.

I'm not going to get sucked into some childish diversion of "who started it". Grow up. You could spend far less effort being a decent human being than you do on this passive-aggressive demand that everyone feel sorry for you. You started this shit. You lost. You aren't welcome on the LGBT Discord server whether or not you would come back.

I'm actually not being passive aggressive nor playing the victim. I'm literally telling you her "Fuck you" and "Fuck off". You've a very unlikeable person, you and the other admin. I stated the first time I said anything really on that server that I was afraid it was going to end up being some sort of SJW clusterfuck and turns out, I was right.

You're an SJW in denial, and I'd rather not deal with you. Buzz off and annoy someone else, I got better things to do than to argue with some perpetually butthurt children.

No, you were as wrong then as you are now. Sure you do, that's why you keep trying to blame your piss-poor behavior on everyone else. That's why you keep responding here. 'Cause you have better things to do.
The sequence of events, here for public record, was @outtheshellvlog stating, "You're not a woman. You're a bad ass chick with a gun," to which I replied, "I'm a badass woman with lots of guns." I then wrote in our mods channel that I hoped he recognized that for the first and last warning that it was. He then replied in general, "I fucking love you."
Ya, totally a guy who considered me unlikeable.
You're a fucking liar, and I don't need to have anyone flag your posts. Your conduct will do far more damage to your Steemit reputation than I could ever hope to do, assuming you were even remotely close to that important to me.
I hope your life becomes less miserable, or at least you will stop trying to make everyone else pay for your shitty behavior.

My views are neutral and generally still are, however I am beginning to get a taste of what the conservatives on alt media rail on about. I appreciate your civility and I'm sorry if my words have personally hurt you in any way.

Pop into our lgbt discord and we are happy to chat about what happened and share some dirty laundry we have that's not public yet.

Dude I've made more money off the comments you down-voted than you've made off this post. But I'm the one lacking comprehension. LOL #rekt

You mean "fake money", it's hilarious seeing you waste your voting power.

Says the guy downvoting comments ... also I haven't used any of my voting power for this. I'm pretty much trolling you at this point though, so please try again.

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