Freewrite Day 444 Cougar
Even though my poster has the animal on it, my freewrite is about women called cougars. These are old ones that go after younger men. This was something I was thought to be when I lost weight for the first time ever at the age of 50. All of the sudden, I was assumed to be hunting for younger guys to date.
This was one of the unintended consequences of losing “half my size.” I was so scared of my new thin self and people’s reaction to me made everything worse.
When I was fat, I could talk to any man and no one thought it mattered. They would not think of me as someone to date and so I was safe. I always worked in male dominated industries and was very comfortable talking to men. Now all of the sudden they were looking at my boobs instead of my eyes, and their wives were wanting to kill me.
I happened to have several young attractive women friends at the time and talked to them about this and what I should do.
“There’s nothing you can do. Now you are “hot” and “dumb” and you may as well die your hair blond.”
Have I adjusted to my new self yet after 8 years living it? Not really, but now in SE Asia I am not so small compared to other women and everything is easier for me here.
My post is for the #freewrite daily challenge by @mariannewest. Freewrite is a great way to post on steemit when you do not think you have the time, or talent, or anything to say. It’s a great way to start regular posting on steemit. I know you can do this too! Here is Marianne’s freewrite prompt post for today. Give it a try and surprise yourself.
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It is that time of year when the fitness equipment is out and the diet books are being read. I lost "Half My Size" eight years ago by using natural methods, and you can too!
This is Sharon @fitinfun. I am posting:
- Healthy Food Ideas on @fitinfunfood
- Easy Exercise, Tips, and Health Information on my son's blog @bxlphabet
- Motivation and everything else on @fitinfun
Please follow along or contact me directly if you would like some individual help with weight loss and health. Anyone can do this if I did.
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Holy cow! Thank you so much. This is awesome :)
Hello @fitinfun .
you are so kind my friend. thank you very much for support me.
i will follow you experience to grow on steemit what you share in my post..
You're welcome keep trying :)
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