❤ ✍ Bitter-leaf Words: Some secrets , ❥Some lessons ϟ and then Some "confusion" ❤

Today, I want to talk about some "bitter-leaf" stuffs. Bitter leaf is an African herb, that is good as medicine for the body but quite bitter in consumption. I rarely talk about fun on my blog page, I apologize for that , I am actually fun sometimes but not entirely, I switch back and forth easily. I reminisce deeply and I don't think it is really a good thing in his entirety , it could be bad but then, it helps me understand life better than I really should.

So, I wanna talk about my life, some secrets , some lessons and then some "confusion". let's get to it.

I miss my friends and it hurts.

This is not emotional, it is a tangible statement. I am about six feet tall, but in the real sense of it, I am actually about 2 feet tall emotionally, I am not sophisticated, I take life with a grain of salt, I dress quite shabbily, because I don't understand a lot about social acceptance and I really don't know how to do things that displease me to please others. I am just trying to say I am a baby in a lot of ways, no one knows this except my friends, and they treat me yet, with respect , reverence and diginity. They forgive me of my recurrent offenses and say things like I understand you. No one is perfect and then we laugh it off. I just described what love means to me. I really don't get it when you say "I love you" to someone you have done nothing for because love to me is a tangible sacrifice-backed act .Although emotions are crazy, the best way to describe some awkward feelings is to just say "I love you" but that wordlove
still remains the most ambiguously used word in the dictionary.

Steps are more important than analysis

I overanalyse, I mean I really do overanalyse. A friend of mine (a lady) once told me "If You want to know everything about a girl before you take a step, the point is you will definitely find a shortcoming, by so doing, you will never take a step, you will end up just dating anyone at the end of the day, and probably get married to a pretender" . She i quite right, I think. But then, I realise one thing, steps are more important than anlysis, analysis are cool but you can only know what you know in person , not from afar, and the best way to know anything is to try it first. This is not limited to the context of the example I just gave, it applies to everything.

Life is in seasons and every season you miss will be paid for in the next.

This is really important. each day counts. If you waste it, you will pay for it sooner or later. Right now, I am loosing friends but not really or entirely because I took advantage of the moments I had with some and wasted the moments I had with some others. So, I know the meaning of paying up for lost seasons. I have one funny belief: There is actually no free time, every free time was left for us by God to fill in with something productive because a time is gonna come when you will be too busy to do that same thing you could have done now

A dreamless person is a potential candidate for frustration.

Spiritually, the world is an ocean, humans are like ships, our passions are compass-es, the captain of our ship is who we choose it to be, the crew are the people we relate with. Your propeller is not enough to push you forward, you need the wind but if you have no destination , you will end up anywhere. It is easy to say we have a dream, but it is hard to be exact or precise about. it's like saying I am going to Africa (without being precise about the country), there is a big possibility you can end up in the shores of Sambisa (if it's close to the ocean). Precision is a huge determinant of success, have you ever prayed before and God asked you What do you want? and then that is when you are like "What do I even want?" , just ask yourself , what if God appears to me now and say "You have been praying my daughter (or son), now is the tine for your reward". He mentions your name and say "What do you want?" and then he adds `Be specific'. What would you say? .Well, I am still not so precise with my goals too but everyday, I work more on the precision and that is why goals that are written down have more possibilities of being achieved. believe me, try it and see.

There is a difference between What you want?And What you really want?.

The earlier you know the difference between the two the better , easier and merrier life will be for you. Many people are simply unhappy because they still can't give different answers to these two questions. These two questions are the reasons why many are depressed , these two questions are the reasons for many suicides. These two questions mean a lot to me, I hope it does to you.

Sorry for the long reading trip. I was just trying to be bare.

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