Hi @tamacvet. What a thought-provoking post. I have my own safe place, it is in reality a memory construct. For a number of years I have been working on the construction. It is a log cabin at the edge of a forest near a river. It has a wooden front door with a window on each side. Inside are a number of rooms. One is a music room where I can relax and listen to music. Some of the other rooms serve different purposes, in one there is a cupboard with drawers. In the drawers I place things I want to remember. Whenever I feel anxious or ill at ease I can retreat to my cabin, sit outside on the step and listen to the river and the birdsong around me.