DOES YOUR HAPPINESS DEPEND ON A CIVIL STATUS?
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Does it matter if you're single or married to be happy?
We live in a society in which the success of man is measured by material achievements and the success of women by their marital status, each gender with a list of requirements to meet to show that they have achieved success in their lives, but beyond this they have not asked what happiness is and what is success? And a little further, do I need to be married to be happy?
Even though my marital status is "married", my answer is a NO; A giant NO.
We can not grow under the stigma that we will be happy when we marry and have children, it is valid not to want to do it, to differ from both ideas and even when society says it is the duty to be, we can be fully happy.
Happiness is a personal work, interior and dependent exclusively on you, With this I do not go to the extreme white or black, being married or married has its benefits and benefits, for example as a couple you can share your happiness with the other person, but Being single is not a punishment or a penance, you just have to learn to live with yourself having a correct attitude to your sentimental situation, in addition, there is no longer and lasting relationship that you have with you.
Life offers you so many opportunities to be happy that being single, widowed, married or divorced is an option, first find the love of your life in you, love, seek your happiness, no one else will give it to you because it is a purely personal matter .
If your decision is in favor of singleness of insurance you will find indiscreet questions anywhere, there will be someone who will worry and tell you that when you look for a partner, since there is a lot of social pressure for this, the single view it as something not so good and ends up being for some a misunderstood topic, but, do not let your well-being and your tranquility be affected, let people talk, totally, they always will.
Remember that a successful woman is constantly evolving, do not stagnate.
devote to be happy.
I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK :)
Traditions creates social pressure to get married and have children. Ironically, the same traditions forbid that posibilility to same sex couples.
I think people can be happy in many different ways and everyone should have full liberty to decide how to live. I also think that try to build a relationship by getting married and/or have children is a terrible mistake, that decisions should only be made when a strong relationship has been already created.
Marriage and children only brings joy not happiness. Happiness is due to peace of heart no matter lf you married 100 wivies or husbands.
El casarse o no, es una decisión individual sometida a consenso por la pareja. No es fácil, no garantiza la felicidad, y cada vez menos. La felicidad va de la mano de la libertad, de la no limitación,de la realización, y no de la mano de un papel. ese papel se puede romper.
Gracias a todos por sus aportes, bendiciones! :)
"Devote to be happy" such a killer mantra to live by. I think this is such an interesting topic as I enjoy my life as a 25 year old single female. The best part about life and happiness is that it's a choice.
el matrimono y los hijos o tambien algunas amistades solo traen alegrias,nuestra felicidad la trae es el estado de ánimo que se presenta en una persona de forma positiva porque disfrutamos de todo lo que tenemos, sin importar lo pequeño que sea ,la felicidad depende exclusivamente de uno mismo saludos desde venezuela @nahela
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