I was married for 24 years to a man who was not the least bit supportive or very loving for that matter. When I finally got the courage to walk away, I was terribly lonely and spent a lot of time looking for 'that' perfect guy. When that got even more depressing, I decided to work on myself and totally changed my diet, went to the gym, joined a biking and kayaking club...all those things that pushed me out of my comfort zone. I finally reached a point where I was happy with myself...alone. It was only then, in the strangest, coincidental, turn of events that I met the man of my dreams. I truly believe that you meet the right person when you project confidence and self-esteem and most importantly, when you're not looking. That's my two-cents...for what it's worth. Cheers!