What really counts on social media platforms and websites is basically: Passion and Lifestyle… that is what attracts people to what your website is all about!

Who wants to be where it’s boring?! 

Most people love the thrill of been somewhere where there is fun and laughter. Even if they’re looking for particular info, they are put off by boring bland content. 

• If you want to build followers and want your website to trend, you have to consider building your personality.  
• The fact is: Your writing style reflects your personality. Because your behaviour, attitude and thinking processes affect the way you write, and how people respond to that with their comments. 

Re-viewing our behaviour:

So there you are, sitting at home and thinking about your personal situation. 

• “Golly! I don’t live an exciting life. If only they knew that I live very humbly!”
• “How can I change my personality? Impossible! I’m so set in my ways!” 

Well… maybe you haven’t thought or said those things. But we do seem to put ourselves down someway or other, don’t we! 

It’s time to change:

All this time you’ve been living in a long dark tunnel. Now, is the time, to light a candle, or if possible, a huge lamp for much more brighter light. 

Number one step:

Start and think… EXCITING… See life as exciting. Act, write and breathe EXCITING! 

     Go on… SMILE. Even chuckle… That’s it. 

Now, do you start to feel the energy vibes beginning to bubble up inside you? 

Number two step:

• Fill your life with sunshine. Run out into the sunshine and hear the birds sing. Listen to the sounds of Nature. 
• Look around you. Look for exciting colours and search for contracts of colours and tones. Doesn’t the world look somewhat brighter than it did before? 
• Now go to your wardrobe and throw out or give away, all those black and grey clothes. I did that years ago, after I had a miscarriage. I had some elegant stuff there. But I was determined to brighten up my life. So I did it and it was worth it. 
• Then look around your house. Where could you put a vase of flowers or bright coloured cushion’s, pictures, etc to brighten up your home? 

Okay, so now you have the right environment to perk you up. Now it’s time to… 

Put happy `bells and whistles’ in your life:

I love those Chinese glass chimes we used to get. But sadly you can’t seem to get them anymore. Well in South Africa, anyway. But hearing their gentle tinkle in the breeze was a balm to the soul. 

The other thing I’ve done is to play calm and happy CD music, while I paint and write blogs. Somehow this helps me with inspiration. The words seem to flow with the harmony of the tune. 

Don’t ever estimate the value of your attitude.

• Your expression and body language has a BIG effect on how you seem to others. 
• The way you write has a BIG effect on how your blogs come across to others. 

Happy sparkling personalities shine and stand out from the crowd. And let me tell you, the internet is very crowded!!!