RE: What makes a woman sexy, pretty, or cute?
Sexy, to me, is the HIGHEST category of erotic. It is a woman who has SOME kind of quality/qualities which exude a feeling that she really enjoys passionate sex. In my world, "sexy" women are NOT the "typical" beauty associated with your other categories. In fact, most of the SEXIEST women I have know, and/or had VORACIOUS sex with, have been drug addicts, attractive (but not in the standard sense), mothers, etc. I guess what I am saying here is that a "real" woman who is generally attractve, but has an additional "sexiness" which makes here MORE attractive than what most men would categorize as your other categories. Yeah, pretty and cute gals are nice to look at, and cuddle with, but SEXY women really STIMULATE my glands in a manner which sends me flying out of control. The best sex I've ever had is with "sexy" women. Hands down, they are the best.
I like your definition of "sexy" and agree that the highest level of sexiness is found in "ordinary" women who have some level of prettiness and a high level of uniqueness, especially the energetic uniqueness. Also, sometimes little idiosyncratic flaws can be very sexy, at least for me. Cheers! : )
In addition to the "little idiosyncratic flaws" I would add some "little physical flaws" as well. The research is in on that. Men are commonly attracted to MINOR physical deformities/aberrations in women. For me, it is a bell curve, where "too perfect" is unattractive AND "too deformed" is as well. I aim for the "midrange of deformity" (ex. a bit of an overbite, odd birthmark, slight nervous twitch, etc.). A good deformity bring a woman down-to-earth, and seperates here from the many "hot/pretty/etc" WENCHES whose heads become so OVER-INFLATED that they are "hard o handle" and (usually) SUB-PAR when you "take it out" on the mat... "maTRESS" that is....
I agree, I love minor physical flaws such as nervous twitchs. You might want to check out my new post with a lot of beauties here. Enjoy! : )