You made my day with the You-cat picture !!
I don't know if you are not super nice as you wrote, but I know that I enjoy your being, so you are not mean, nasty or such, cause I never waste my energy talking to low vibs people ^_^
Indeed spammy comments are annoying, I personally try to not focus too much on them but I confess I have a great skill to not see what I don't want to see...LoL... Yet I understand your concern about them ;-)