All about cunnilingus

Do not start with direct caresses of the clitoris!

Any unpleasant sensations in such a delicate place automatically block pleasant ones. In practice it looks so that at the girl or the degree of excitement will instantly fall down — and then you should begin all over again. Or "injured" areas will appear unpleasant feeling of numbness — and then, how would you then persisted and whatever was doing somersaults language, all will be to no avail.

It is much more effective and pleasant to spin the first minute or two somewhere nearby, touching the clitoris with the tongue as if by chance. You can focus on the caresses of the labia — there will be very useful kisses of such a plan, as if you ate melted ice cream.

Refrain from too energetic movements.
Much — not so nice. And, rather, even contrary. So do not lick so desperately, if you lick the wound on the body of a girlfriend. If you take out the brackets, that from the outside it usually looks... in short, it does not look so hot. Moreover, with such pressure you risk to run out too quickly. The main thing — the girl can be painfully elementary. Fluttering, light, but quite energetic movements with the tip of the tongue will give a hundred points forward, if you let the "tongue-shovel".

The same applies to situations when a guy sucks the clitoris and lets him go with a smack. If women liked that, we'd be masturbating with vacuum cleaners. Although to be fair, I note that among the girls there is a small percentage of lovers of rather rigid oral stimulation, for example, biting the labia, kissing passionately with the clitoris or slapping it with the palm of your hand. However, they need time for a delicate heating — the first couple of minutes, as if you do not itch your teeth and hands, tinning is not recommended. But in the case of vigorous Pat-biting — do not get carried away and do not spend a lot of time and effort on them. Such manipulations are a piquant addition to cunnilingus, a cherry on the cake, a spectacular exit in the final, and not the main essence and mechanics of your actions.

Keep your hands to yourself.
Hands you, men, need not to chin prop up and massage the numb neck, and that they were there, where there is no your language. In particular, many girls during oral sex upsets "feeling of emptiness inside". Therefore, a good idea — with your fingers, for example, the right hand to stimulate the entrance to the vagina or point G (but you need to start this procedure only at a time when the partner is already on edge, and your finger easily slips inside).

The palm of his left hand — Yes, without work will not remain none of your limb! — put the girl on the pubes and put a little pressure on it. And still it is possible and sometimes it is necessary to make a small pulling movement up. The clitoris, as a rule, is closed by folds of the labia. This is the most pulling up movement, in fact, will open all the areas of interest to you.

Third hand — well, what if? — you can stimulate the girl from the rear. Not necessarily to try to find their partner non-existent prostate. Sometimes, for the exciting effect, it is enough to simply "designate" your presence in this zone (lightly touch the anus, press a little, make a few circular movements).

Keep pace.
This is important if you do not just want to show what you are a generous and non-fastidious guy, and seriously intends to bring your partner to orgasm. On average, cunnilingus lasts 5-8 minutes (I can imagine how those who spend on the procedure from half an hour or more now cried; but "on average" — this means that there are those who finish in a minute, and there are those who are not so easy to spend — or rather, you will not bring).

So, 5-8 minutes. The first third is a "free program", and the remaining time is a specific, rather monotonous and monotonous work on beating out an orgasm from a woman. And here it is important to set the rhythm, quite fast and, if you change the movement, then keeping the rhythm.

Keep in mind that effective does not mean effective.
I have heard that the most successful in terms of excitement and speed of orgasm pose — a "rider". The only difference is your partner saddles your face. About excitement — I agree. I'm worried. And for the "warm-up" of the first minutes can be a very good option. But if we are not talking about the heroine of a porn movie, but about a real woman, then to experience an orgasm in this position it can prevent elementary thoughts about how you're there? Did he suffocate? Not if she will break your nose on the approaches to the orgasm (and at this point, we are not responsible for themselves and can begin to move through a very dangerous amplitude). As one of my friend: "Yeah, turns me on the idea that I'm sitting on the face of the partner. But for me to finish, let him better turn me on my back."

The same applies to the pose "69": cool, exciting, you see a partner from unexpected angles and do not doubt that he is excited no less than yours. But an erect penis is not the knocking of the neighbors on the battery. You can't just ignore him. And being in the immediate vicinity of the woman's face, your instrument of love alone requires her response. That is, and excites, and at the same time distracting, preventing the girl to concentrate on their own feelings. And besides, don't forget: if at the crucial moment the girl did not guess it spit it out, what can it in a fit of passion and bite.

Therefore, the rule for choice orgasmology poses one. You can start as you like. Though standing on each other's heads and flippers. But to cum, a woman usually needs to take a comfortable and familiar position (!) And most of us are more used to having a guy's head between our legs, and in the worst case, we risk crushing his ears with our knees.

Effectively — does not mean effectively, part 2
No matter how many times I discussed with my friends all sorts of intricate techniques like "alphabet", we inevitably came to the conclusion that this is complete bullshit. Cum from this unreal. At least because, writing letters, you guys will not be able to keep neither the rhythm nor the necessary pressure. Plus you like to drink, make Zaruba in fact, not confused do you the sequence of letters? That is, you will not think about what is necessary. And it is necessary — on the partner and her reaction to your manipulation.

We delivered the same verdict to the technique of "playing the harmonica". Perhaps the graduates of the Conservatory and love when a man sings or just Moos them in the crotch. But an ordinary woman is more amused than aroused. And it is worth the girl to start choking on laughter during cunnilingus — orgasm do not wait. In the next 40 minutes, for sure.