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RE: A CRY FOR HELP
- I didnt say all men.
- It is all men in creating this society. You are highlightly the extreme but this is a symptom of patriarchy and toxic masculinity.
I know you mean well but do read these links and see ehy its important to not say #notallmen
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/NotAllMen
http://time.com/79357/not-all-men-a-brief-history-of-every-dudes-favorite-argument/
I lovingly ask. What is next for your team? Why are you educating girls ? Are you educating boys and men?
I know you didn't say all men. My using the word " not all men " was never in defense of the male folk. I saw the link and i understand completely but it was not in that context that I made use of the word.
After seeing the link, I stand corrected.
Thanks
Thanks for the insight. I appreciate
To answer your question. That girl's school was our last bus stop but was not where we started from. We visited saint Theresa catholic school which comprise of both male and female and then GBSS ( government boys secondary school). It's not a one sided thing.
"to make sure the girl child is pre-informed in order not to fall a victim."
Preinformed of what? How to run away from your disgusting rapist father? How to not be molested as a helpless baby? How to not trust your disgusting ass neighbor with your kid? How to not get kid napped by armed militiamen?
Its completely one sided!
So many school girls have being lured by one tactics or the other in cases we have seen over the years either by kidnappers or by rapists while coming back from school. So informing them of this is not a bad idea. You are angry? Fine, I am too . I am not the bad guy here because that is how it seem right now.
The word preinformed is not in the context you are taking it to be.
It totally is!! Teaching girls self defense is useless unkess they fight or have weapons and even then they are still children. Teaching boys and men how to change each other and society???? That will hsve a much stronger impact. "How to not be akidnapper or rapist" do you believe these men came from nowhere? Its all over the world and its called patriarchy. Im beong tough because i have high hopes for you. I hope we take this further. You are not theeee bad guy. But i disagree with this approach very much
Yes I will also like to continue this discussion but on a chat platform. Where there can be a to and fro instant response. Thanks