My friend, if this is your perception then this is what you will attract to yourself. I know very well what you mean, the male-female relationship is out of balance, led by the battle of powers, seems hopeless and anything but love-oriented. But I am telling you people are changing. And if you want to find yourself in a world which is not "lusty" or "sexfull" then allow yourself to change.
My two cents. Your choice 👍