Firstly,happy womens day to all,rather it should not be a single day where we pay more attention towards a women but everyday should be mentally treated as womens day.
This type of problem is almost seen in all couples because two human beings are very different by nature and by behaviour. At first a women should respect herself and know her value, and what she is ...she need not to sacrifice her life and her desires for others ,she should live her life first. Well when it comes to you, you have already accepted him as what he is ,that mean his behaviour has been what it actually is, dont try to change him.. instead.. try to be actual you,, you are living your life according to him, believe me,once you live you life as per you, as per your value,as per your dreams and desires,he automatically will fit in...ofcourse ,every relation lasts as long as there is compromise ,BUT not from your side only..try this stuff as you are about to get married ...i wish you best of luck ahead...