Yep you have share some sage advice.

This line of yours,

''Don't be too negative.''

Is something I really need to take notice of. Specifically I need to stop calling out some of the bullshit that goes on here. I get flagged for it way too often. I am expecting at least one more flag for the day and it pisses me off but i don't seem to be able to let it go when someone is deliberately misleading people.