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RE: Living with a child with ADHD Part 2
Eat vegan, don't feed them negative energy, and dont give them pharmaceutical drugs, at best its a placebo for all involved, at its worst it is poison.
Children are just reflections of their parents, so take responsibility for yourself, become fit and healthy, relaxed, balanced and at peace, then child will become the same.
I was diagnosed with ADHD and was prescribed Ritalin for a time. It does nothing. I liked nothing more than to wind my parents up. But it was my way of making fun of them because of how they treated me. Children should be treated with the same respect as adults, with the same actions.
ADHD is just something people on a low vibration call children who have a lot of energy, nothing more than that.
My child has always been respected, it has nothing to do with the parents the fact the cord was wrapped around her neck 3 times cutting off the air and a emergency section possibly did this. There's a massive difference between A child with ADHD, Possibly you were wrongly diagnosed. I have 2 children both brought up exactly the same way and she has no problems. ADHD does exist you have only got to talk and listen to a ADHD child too realise that. Thank you for your comment.
Listen. Its just a word and information to make parents feel better about their own negative perception of their child. ADHD is just a phrase. What exists in reality is a very energetic child, that is it, trust me. I 'had it'. At least while there was disrespectful 'adults' who just saw me in a negative light were labeling me as such. Do you follow me? You only see it from a negative side, as a problem, because you are the parent. I always thought, why do these crazy people keep getting angry with me? I have done nothing wrong!? I was expelled and in and out of special schools, for being too hyper and not listening, being disruptive. I didn't care to listen. I wouldn't sit still and just do what other people told me to because I knew it was a disrespect to my freedom. Its too easy for parents and teachers to be controlling and strict, and when the child doesn't obey their ego is hurt and it starts a whole snowball of tension and fighting that they cannot let go. The child doesn't care because she/he is free. They dont have problems. This is how it is. You have to see if from your child's point of view. Have they really done anything wrong enough to be labelled? Given poisons? How do you think it makes you child feel? It has no positive effect. I resisted it the more these crazy people around me tried to do their craziness. Looking back I can laugh and see how stupid and funny it all was. But at the time it was very tense for others around me.
So you don't believe in ADHD it must be true? You were badly parented you were wrongly diagnosed so every child must have been. Believe me I know about a bad childhood I was abused by a father who would rather beat me with a belt and a mother who didn't care it didn't turn me into a bad parent I was and still am more understanding. There's a massive difference between a naughty child and a child with ADHD, they can't focus on one thing they have so much going on the medication slows things slightly so they can focus they can learn and they can have a life, she's 24 nearly and knows herself she thinks differently she reacts differently. There's a lot More to ADHD than just being naughty.