How to solve family problems

ytyeasin (66)Creative Millionairesin Steem Schools • 5 years ago

If you are one of the perfect family: Raihaqi says, “The whole creation is the family of God. The one who is most dear to God in all creation is the one who is kind to his own family. ”

The family has a special environment. No other thing in the family environment can have such an impact on a person's character.

The thing that works more than advice here is imitation. The behavior of the parents in the family affects others especially the children and they imitate it

Dorothy Carnegie used to forbid her six-year-old child to eat the daily meal Toby Le ‘Levestanachar’. Yet he wanted to take it away again and again. It was exciting food for the kids but Dorothy was a big fan of it. When the ban didn't work, Dorothy started eating the baby's food. The child also wanted to eat when he saw her. It turned out later, all of that baby

Food should be eaten so Dorothy is eating and the baby is imitating her too. Kids want to think big and they have the subtle mindset to prove that they are inclined to work for adults.

"It's easy to be a parent, but it's hard to be a parent," Wilisky said. We will find out why it is said in the words of Mrs. Margaret. Margaret Sanger was the mother of one of the happiest families in the state at the time. He secretly wrote in his diary, "Fatherhood that has a sense of responsibility is indeed great, but that fatherhood will not be unwanted, well-regulated and full of responsibility and knowledge.

The thing you hear from time to time is, what happens if someone doesn't get into a fight sometimes? Is the relationship strong? Or listen, "Small toe disputes are necessary to keep the air in the house clean." No matter how many hymns you hear, conflict is by no means a good thing. Throwing the spear of reason brings destructive consequences for the world. You can get the following evils for this quarrel in the world:

The blood pressure of a fighting soldier may increase.
Headaches may persist.
Can be affected by complex diseases like ischemia.
Children may become disobedient.
Men or boys will survive only if they can escape from the house.

It is normal for them to gossip and go astray outside. Below are the compensation that you have to pay for the fight

● No one really understands you, you will be self-conceited for this.

0 What you expect from others, you will see through quarrels, often that hope will not be fulfilled.

0 Argument from your responsibilities can distract you for which you will feel bad. In conflict, the quiet environment brings evolution. For which this resh continues inside the sleeve for some more time. Resulting in

● Next work and time will be wasted. The precious time of that quarrel goes to hell

William Payne's nectarine words, "Parents are the next place for God," then went up in flames. The result of the conflict is that Lawrence S. Dabo recounts a funny saying, "The first half of our life is destroyed by our parents and the other half is destroyed by our children."

Quarrels can ruin a precious life if your family has a long history of quarreling.

This creates a feeling of helplessness in your family which is likely to lead to a decrease in the value of the relationship and a lack of sincerity.

You've been bothering me for so long that I'm not even here before the fight. What is the benefit of listening to me? Yes, I am talking about those who volunteer in the fight, fight and get drunk.

Stop taking all the responsibilities of everyone in the world. If the children neglect to keep their house clean and tidy, keep the door closed and avoid all the things that disturb you unnecessarily and keep yourself busy with your paths of happiness and peace.
Make it a habit to use the word "you" more than the word "I" when everyone is attacking you. For example, "You're really upset because you couldn't do your job on time." Where you usually say, "You're angry because I couldn't do it." Where people usually say, "I couldn't." When others get lost in anger, you must always remember that it is like a contagious disease, so you have to restrain yourself as much as possible. Otherwise stay disconnected.
If your son or daughter does badly in exams, do not threaten them with your values. Instead, make them aware of the consequences of suffering. Be careful not to give them the opportunity to use them for the time being.
If you feel the possibility that someone may come to you unintentionally or by mistake, keep yourself away from the argument immediately. There will be two things to do (a) He did not join the argument, he survived,
They will be able to realize their own mistakes at some point after the previous setback. (5) At the same time, throwing warm words means conflict. If a child is unnecessarily encouraged for this reason, let him know the tactics, it is a matter that you do not like. For this you can indicate in this way without taking him to the next party or party. For this, if he asks a question later, calmly explain to him that you are not encouraged to do anything with someone who is unaware of the dignity of others.
Discuss in a calm environment without worries. When your son or daughter arrives at the table late, do not yell at him or her, but calmly discuss the ugly side of it. Will bear fruit.
If someone wants to cover up the request, explain to him that you are not overwhelmed by flattery or such efforts. If on Saturday night your spouse says, "I don't know if I can go to the movies tomorrow." Then calmly tell him, "I decided to go see that picture." And then go away on your own. If it goes with the logic, then the mood swings of the other party will get better after two or four times.
If you don't do the right thing at the right time, your mood will turn sour. Keep yourself silent for sixty seconds during such awkward legs. Realize, it's someone else's fault, not yours. So you can't ruin your peace with this, don't be embarrassed. What to do next, the delay will bring you that consideration. Understand yourself, are you going to fight or not?