In a family, the one you should care the most is not the child, but the wife

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I met a fascinating incident when I took the subway today.

At the station, there is an empty seat beside me, a little boy about three years old ran towards and sat down, and then shouted at the door: "Mom come over, there is an empty seat here!"

A few seconds later, a young couple walked in, the wife was holding her husband's hand, smiling and said to her son: "There is only one seat, me and your father can stand."

The little boy said: "I am a boy, I don't need to sit, mom, you sit."

The mother can’t argue with the little boy's request, so she sat down, and his father was rubbing his son's small head as a compliment.

From their conversation, probably the mother is taking the son out for shopping and dropped off dad to work. The little boy said to his dad loudly: "Can you play with mother and me?"

The father comforted his son and said: "You have to behave. After I get off work, I will come and pick you and mom up immediately, and buy you your favorite banana boat ice-cream."

The little boy still not very happy, has been rubbing his father's hand, but did not say anything.

Later, when the father arrived at his workplace, before he walks out the train, he suddenly turned serious and said to his son: "You must take good care of my wife, don't make her cry, that is my wife, understand? I'm going to earn money for you!"

Everyone in the train was laughing, and he looked kindly at his son to make sure.

At that time I was thinking, in this family, their ranking must be mother-son-dad.

For the son, he was taught that the mother is the most important, so everything will be first for mom, help his mom occupied seat, afraid of mom getting tired.

To the husband, in his heart, the wife is also the most important. Therefore he educates his son to love his mother more.

In this family, the one who gets the most attention is the wife rather than the son. The one who gets the ultimate profit is the husband, because he not only has a sensible filial son, and also a gentle and considerate wife.

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Not long ago, my mother and I went for breakfast. Next to us, is a big round table, there is a family, probably the husband, wife, son and both parents.

After everyone sat down, some people began to talk about the day, some others people were playing around the kids. Left only the wife, not only need to help the parent's in-laws refill water, but also need to feed her son.

In between of all those, the husband asked the wife and said: "Can you ask the waiter why the food is not out yet?”

The wife put down the milk and got up to find the waiter.

After looking for the waiter, the father-in-law asked her to pour a cup of tea, when the wife pouring the tea, the teapot tilted and accidentally burn her hand, and the teapot fell on the ground and smashed.

The waiter came to help, the husband and the elderly keep apologize to the waiter and scold the wife with very harsh word, I saw that woman's eyes turned red, but still quietly tidy up the teapot.

Later, I heard her husband said loudly: "What are you doing, can’t even take good care of a child!”

At that time my mother and I were chatting and was shocked by that shout. When we looked at their table and found that child was crying, probably accidentally hit his forehead.

And the wife, then scrambling to comfort the child, seems to have a bit of breakdown. The weird thing is, no matter her husband, or her parents-in-law, or even her parents, no one are on her side helping her.

How can a wife be happy if she has no difference with a maid?

I can imagine that when the child grows up, he will become a man who dictates his mother, and will never be a well-bred, excellent child.

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In a family, sometimes the wife needs more attention than the child.

This kind of caring is not a matter of money but is love and respect.

Warren Buffett once said: "The most important investment in my life is not about buying which stock, but to choose who to become my partner."

A good marriage can make you more and more hard-working, let you deeply feel more happy than a person, give you more self-confidence, let you move farther, and better.

Men, remember, your deepest love for a woman is not to marry her, but after marrying her, you also need to care and love for her more, let your family and children, love her together.

I believe that a woman that is well treated in a family, there will be a greater return to the family, she will give you gentle and thoughtful sensible child, and will provide you an ordinary and warm home.

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