Healing wounds in the family:

The purpose of this message is for listeners to know what causes wounds in the family, how they affect the human soul, and what we must do to heal those wounds. Injuries between family are given directly or indirectly, that is, some are on purpose and others are due to carelessness.

Regarding the moral feeling of the family members, it is not taken into account if the wound was directly or indirectly, it is taken as something that damages their morals and commonly becomes the root of bitterness if it is not about solving the problem .

I. THINGS THAT CAUSE WOUND IN THE FAMILY

There are many causes why the family can be hurt. These injuries can occur between couples of spouses, between parents and children, between siblings; or among family members in general.

A. AMONG THE COUPLE OF HUSBANDS, THE WOUNDS CAN BE GIVEN BY

1. Some moral fault on the part of one of the spouses

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1. An act of disparagement towards your partner or your partner

2. An unpleasant comparison about your partner

3. Constant jealous attitude

4. The bad treatment by one of the two in their daily life

5. Attitude of contempt towards a member of the spouse's family

6. Unfulfilled promises

B. AMONG PARENTS AND CHILDREN. INJURIES CAN ARISE BY

1. Lack of attention to the needs of children by parents

2. Any fault committed by the children of damage to the morale of the family

3. Any fault committed by the children that harms the moral of the family

4. Some disciplinary act applied unjustly against children

5. Preference of the parents towards one of their children and contempt for others

6. Some promise offered but not come true

C. AMONG BROTHERS, INJURIES CAN BE GIVEN BY

1. Some secret disclosed.

2. An offense received

3. Feeling of disparagement caused by parents

4. Attitude of mockery towards one of the brothers

II. THINGS THAT ARE RELATED TO INJURIES IN THE FAMILY
Among the things that are related to the wounds in the family, are the mind, the heart, the eyes, the mouth and the ears.

A. THE MIND: When you think or do not think what you are going to say against the people around you. When you think what you are going to say, they are wounds provoked with all reasoning. When you do not think what you are going to say against people, it is when you did not think that the words were going to offend the person.

B. THE HEART: This is the seat of the feelings of human beings and when the person feels offended, belittled or believes receiving bad treatment, resentment against others is kept in the heart.

C. LA BOCA: When what we say builds or destroys those around us. They can be words that build or words that destroy.

D. THE EARS: When what we hear does not cause pleasure or cause us displeasure.

E. As a consequence of this, there are moral, physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and psychosomatic diseases. Psychosomatic diseases are diseases of the soul and the spirit, and can not be cured by human medicine. It can only cure them (the power of God).

III. INJURIES IN THE FAMILY ENFERMAN THE SOUL

A. WHAT IS THE SOUL? Biblical studies and Christian messages let us know that she is the bearer of human life. When it leaves the man, the body perishes. It is the seat of the emotions of human life. She is the one who laughs through the mouth, she cries through the eyes. She loves and hates, that is, uses the body to manifest. Through the soul, man is aware of himself, through the body he is aware of the world that surrounds him, through the spirit he is conscious of God. Christian preaching warns us that the soul can get sick during its journey in this life, but it can be healed by the Power of God.
B. WHAT THINGS ENFERMAN THE SOUL? Christian biblical and preaching studies let us know that hatred towards others, adultery and fornication, resentment (non-forgiving spirit), bitterness, and strife, jealousy, anger and lies, prostitution, deception and idolatry, homosexuality, the practice of lesbianism and injustice, incest (sexual union between family members), gossip and drunkenness, lasciviousness (the incessant desire for sex), slander (information and defamation) the bad guys deals and goals not reached.

IV. WHAT DO WE COUNT ON HUMAN BEINGS FOR THE HEALING OF WOUNDS IN THE FAMILY?

A. The word of God: she has the solution for human problems.

With what will the young man clean his way? With keeping your WORD (Ps.119: 9).

"Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path" (Ps.119: 105).

"Because the word of God is alive and effective and sharper than any two-edged sword; and penetrates to split the soul and the spirit, the joints and the marrow and discerns the thoughts and the intentions of the heart "(Heb.4: 12).

B. PRAYER: Christian biblical and preaching studies teach us that prayer touches the gates of heaven, touches the heart of God, and breaks down all kinds of barriers "Praying at all times with all prayer and supplication for all saints" ( Eph 6:18); Jesus also told them a parable about the need to pray always and not to faint "(Lk.18: 1)" But the end of all things is near; be thirsty Sober and watch in prayer "(1 Peter 4: 7).

C. THE BLOOD OF JESUS ​​CHRIST: She cleanses us from all sin, and frees us from sin (1ª.Juan.1: 7-9).

D. CONFESSION: Confession partly avoids the sense of guilt. "He who conceals his sins does not prosper; but he who confesses them and withdraws will obtain mercy "(Prov.28: 13).

E. THE PROFESSIONAL CONCIERGE: It is good to consult with psychologists, marriage counselors, psychiatrists, pastors of experience and others who can help us in our problems. Many dismiss the advice of professionals, but we must remember that science is capable of knowing the human being, and the basis to help those who need it.

F. THE SEPARATION OF BAD THINGS: The Word of God demands the separation of bad things, since this displeases God. (2 Cor 6: 17,18).