Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple
As a normal human being in general, naturally I expect all the best to complete my life, including a partner who will accompany me throughout life with various joys.
Everyone has their own definition of their dream partner, even in the past I personally often fantasized about having a perfect, beautiful, smart, romantic partner and so on.
Is your current partner your choice and your ideal partner? How did you struggle to get it? Tell us about your heroic struggle. |
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We can only plan and try, but it is God who determines the course of our destiny, no one can predict tomorrow, with whom we will spend the rest of our precious time and when we will meet our dream partner, all of that goes according to destiny. which has been determined by itself.
On the basis of self-confidence and full awareness, I can say out loud that the woman who currently lives under the same roof with me is the ideal partner that I have chosen to knit holy love that is approved by the creator of the universe.
The biggest gift that I got was when God brought me to meet a woman exactly like I dreamed of, even though the word perfect is not ours, but what I have got for 7 years in a relationship with my current partner is more than what I had imagined before.
Tampa went through the dating process like most teenagers in general, exactly 7 years ago a friend introduced me to a beautiful and unpretentious village girl.
One week undergoing the process of ta'aruf and introductions via telecommunications, then I made up my mind to meet him and his parents in person.
There was no blind date, no sweet words came out of my mouth to say love like poets, I just went to my parents and expressed my desire to settle down. Thankfully, his parents welcomed me very well and long story short, we finally got married.
What obstacles did you face when you wanted to get married, or why aren't you married yet? |
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Born into a family that was deprived, especially in terms of finances, I had to leave my hometown and choose to work and migrate outside the province in order to get a decent life.
That was one of the main obstacles I faced when I wanted to get married. I had to work hard to prepare enough money to be able to get married by following all the existing processes, such as prevailing customs and other supporting matters.
What are your ideal partner criteria? |
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In the past, before marriage I wanted to have the perfect partner, as I mentioned above, but over time I began to learn many things from most of the previous people, that true love does not have certain criteria that can be demanded from one of them.
One thing that is expected of my partner is to be a partner that complements each other, and I am grateful that my current partner is the best of all, passing each day pleasantly, having fun when spoken to, trusting each other, and most importantly being able to get through all problems with good communication way all the time.
Do you prioritize beauty or convenience in communicating? Why? |
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Beauty can be created over time and the bonus is that without prioritizing I have got that beauty, so that it becomes a complete package in my relationship with the partner I love.
However, comfort in communicating is the main thing for me, with good communication, of course, it can make my partner feel comfortable and calm, so that every day we spend is a happy day and the next day will be much more enjoyable.
What is the measure of your happiness in marriage? |
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When I wake up in the morning and look to the side, I always find the face of my wife smiling while giving good morning wishes and a warm kiss on the forehead. I don't think that can be replaced by any type of happiness that anyone can define, because true happiness is the happiness We feel it ourselves, not from the assumptions and thoughts of others.
What do you think about early marriage or older marriage? |
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Early marriage or older marriage is only a matter of time and opportunity, a little earlier or a little later is not a measure of the success of a marriage.
There are not a few concrete examples that we have seen, that those who marry early can also live happily and survive into old age, just look at the love stories of our previous parents who married almost at a very young age.
In essence, marriage is not a matter of ideal age, but marriage is a person's readiness to build a happy household, on the basis of a mutual commitment to look after each other, to complement any partner's shortcomings and to love one another, then everything will work out. well until death do us part.
That's all for my participation this time, and on this occasion I will also invite my friends @dexsyluz, @patjewell and @f2i5 to take part in this challenge.
hopefully it will be useful and thank you for everything.
May every day we pass be a goal for goodness and happiness together.
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Que gusto leerte amigo... Son pensamientos bastante profundos en su mayoría, a veces las poesías son usadas sin palabras y aunque mencionas que no usaste muchas en el proceso de unión estoy seguro que tu rostro al estar con ella o tus gestos expresaron más que eso.
Por otro lado ella convirtió cada mañana de tu vida en una poesía con esa sonrisa y ese saludo matutino...
Es una cultura muy responsable y correcta el pensar en el sustento antes de casarse, en mi país algunos no se preocupan por eso sino hasta que es demasiado tarde y la realidad los golpea. Algunos no nacemos con herencia o mucho dinero y tenemos que trabajar duro por el bienestar económico de la familia, supongo que eso hace que valoremos más nuestros hogares.
Que Dios les conceda toda una vida juntos compartiendo cada emoción y reto que la vida les ponga por delante, siempre juntos.
Me dio gusto leerte.
Hello @jesusjacr, Thank you my friend for your kind words.
As an ordinary man, I can only try and make sure to always provide comfort for my partner, because then I will feel happy.
May we all be given a partner that fits what we dream of.
Saya melihat sebuah hubungan yang sangat luar biasa terjalin dalam kehidupan anda. Saya rasa itu merupakan hubungan pasangan yang sangat ideal.
Terimakasih sudah menyebut saya dalam postingan saya. Semoga sukses selalu brother.
Terimakasih banyak atas kata-kata baiknya brother, saya yakin masih harus belajar banyak dari Anda untuk bisa mewujudkan hubungan yang ideal, seperti yang anda jalani bersama pasangan anda.
You have a beautiful wife and in my eyes you are the perfect couple!
Put the two of you together on a photo and there is LOVE clearly written all over it.
7 Years! There are still many years left for the two of you to grow together. Enjoy every moment of it!
Wishing you all the best my friend! ☕
7 years is a very new time, I'm sure there are still many stories that we have to go through together later, and you are one of the couples we set as an example.
Hope to get a lot of experience from you for us who are just starting to build an ark of love. 🥰
I tell you what... pack your suitcases, yours and your families, come to South Africa and I will tell you in person.
I've got just the place for you to stay and I my advise will be FREE. (•ิ‿•ิ)
Thank you, friend!
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