Games in childrens life

Computer games certainly have their impact on the human, as well as all that is happened around him. But is it a negative, as they like to attribute to it?
Children love to play games and can start from 4-5 years. Boys often play shooter games, which are accompanied by blood animation, screams and others. But when people play this kind of games, he does not think that the killing of a real person, he is aware that this is just an image on the screen, no more than a collection of pixels. Children whose parents are allowed to play, but do it under control often ahead of their peers whose parents strictly forbidden to play. The most common problem of child cruelty lies in family relationships, rather than high-profile murders on the screen. After a child, in fact, it is the original "material", "clay" from which parents and the inner circle mold a full member of society.
Games also affect the child more on the positive side, when forced him to think of tactics (such games as Civilization), look for ways to solve problems and puzzles (games like Syberia), rapid decision-making (like Counter Strike, Quake), online games teach them play at team (like Starcraft). But do not think that if a child will always play - it will develop him and good for him. When a person is constantly engaged in the same work for a long time without a break - his brain ceases to strain and resolve all formulaic ways. It is also worth to interest the child and books, for example, or the movies.
You must control the child's relationship with an intern – it is a bit hard, but do not prohibit, put passwords. The ban always acts on the man as temptation and drawn to the forbidden. Decide with your child a time when he can play. Try to choose games according to age restrictions (now there are written in all games). The child will be very interesting to talk to you about his favorite game or website, if you are able to communicate with him on this subject - just raise your credibility in his eyes, and bring you closer.