| How is this okay? |

in #family5 years ago (edited)

How is this okay?

So I finally got some of my notes back from the visitation center that I'm forced to use because my child's mother does not want to lose any ground in her attempts to alienate me from building a relationship with our child.

Now that my child's intellect is catching up and shes more understanding, she is asking to be with me and to come to my house and to have a relationship with her siblings. All of these requests from her I have to avoid telling her the truth that her "mother" is doing this to her and her mother is manipulating her, I cant tell the truth so I'm not looking like the bad guy in my visitation logs. It's so sad to watch your child be brainwashed by a parent who supposedly loves her but not more than they hate you for choosing not to be in a relationship with someone that could not make you happy. It's like mothers/parents like her assume because the father/parent doesn't want to continue on fighting and would rather place their focus on being a better parent/person and raising his children the manipulative alienating parent includes the children in that relationship ending.

Children need both of their parents. Children also need both of their parents to be at a certain level of maturity to be able to do what's best for their future.

Parental alienation is child abuse that is not recognized by the courts because it interferes with the profits they make off the destruction of families but fathers and parents like myself are ensuring that laws and more awareness get shed on this disgusting problem.

Keep trying all you want to keep this relationship from going back to as good as it was but the more you try the bigger of a fool you're going to look in the end.

Do these types of comments from a 6 year old child look like she doesn't want to be around her father? The rest of the logs just yell brainwashing..

Notes directly from LSS staff

Court in 5 days. The letter I wrote to the judge will be published after court along with more evidence if no progress is being made.

When does enough become enough?

When does the mother finally look in the mirror and see that SHE is the problem and is harming her own child to prove something to man that doesn't want anything to do with that mother?

-@drtarts

The ball is in your court Judge Mark M. Starr of Hibbing Minnesota...

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Very Sad To Read. Its right that kids should get the love of both the parents at least till they are adults.if it does not happens out usually children get off in bad companies and sometimes they look for help and they get opposite the world is full of bad people looking to take davantage but there will be very few to sit with you and give their time and say they with you or giving a pat on your back.

Wrap this up in form of affidavit. Backed by these notes.

Sad to read, i may not be here. I'm going to leave steemit,but as always wish you the best. In heart of hearts, wish that your daughter gets to be more active in your life.

The full notes were submitted in a letter to the judge yesterday. Where ya going?

Idk yet checking some avenues. But the ads and recent changes ruins the exp for me at least.

I've yet to come across any and FB is shadow banning some of my content I can feel the drastic drop in traffic. What other options are similar to steemit?

When does the mother finally look in the mirror and see that SHE is the problem and is harming her own child to prove something to man that doesn't want anything to do with that mother.

Never. Women are vengeful creatures. Not all not of course. But if the women in question wasn't one of the vengeful one you wouldn't have any problems.

And if I may suggest something: Don't put real name into your posting. Especially not the Judges name. The Judge has been brain washed as well. He is not only not on your side. He isn't even neutral.

Feminist organisations have infiltrated the court systems decades ago. Hidden as advisers using fake studies like the Duluth Model they have swayed the judges perception to consider men to be the bad guy in any domestic dispute.

And that Duluth Model model has no scientific backing make it worse. This feminist hate model has made it into the court system and because of that you can't expect logical and neutral decisions from the judges.

It's and uphill struggle for you.

Do be careful when making postings. Especially on Steem where there is no delete from the blockchain.

I suggest you follow the #mens-rights and #mra hashtag here on steem. If you use any other social media I can give you more groups to follow. Mens rights isn't very strong on Steem.

I mean after going on 4 years of not getting to be in your child's lives exposing those who are part of it with their real names and what their actions are is all you are able to resort to. The Duluth model is a cancer that I've grown to know very well. I happen to Live in Duluth MN, The home of it and have had to go to a 27 week class that crammed it down my throat. I'm part of countless Fathers Rights groups and follow many activists of it on youtube but most people are in my same shoes for years longer than I have been for letting the courts run right over them.
I appreciate it though I just don't know what else to do and I'm willing to take on the attention good or bad that it will bring.

Chicago isn't that far away? Anything planned for August?

International Conference on Men’s Issues (ICMI)

Depends on the severity of the extortion I'm in. She makes me use a center that charges $38.00 an hour to see my kid.

This is just so wrong. And something new I didn't know about.

On top of child support & being extorted to compensate her for her travel with cash not being reported to child support..

It's criminal what far to many women do, using the children as weapons against the fathers. My mother was one of those, using me and my brother to punish my dad both emotionally and financially. For all the slogans about being about the children, its mostly just a bunch of hot air to be used to manipulate situations that are anything but what is best for the children.

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