Booby Trap III, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1 and part 2.
With self-love comes better understanding of what kind of love we should expect. I have this thing; as lively, naughty and playful as I could get, once I notice some things that won’t improve me from you, I don’t waste my time. I give people time, I give them benefits of doubt but I will draw your attention to it. I will address it and if you feel you don’t want to change and it is affecting me, I would painstakingly cut you off without an apology. Yes, it is cold and harsh but my heart is at stake and I wouldn’t put your own feelings ahead of mine.
I am equally as important as you are. If you feel you could do what’s best for you without any iota of sacrifice, what makes you think I don’t deserve to do the same? Destiny isn’t emotional. I have to guard my heart with all diligence. I can’t afford to have it messed up for the next person I would consider worthy of it. Why should I allow her to be nursing a messed up heart which she didn’t cause?
There is this lady, and for the sake of reference, let’s call her Priscilla. This guy asked Priscilla out and she agreed. They have been dating for quite a while but some things seem to be off. Maybe he is distracted with something and she couldn’t place her hands on it yet, until she noticed there was this other lady he exchanges text messages with. She confronted him and the guy said his relationship with that other lady is stale? Wow.
He qualified his relationship with another lady as fungi-infested bread. That’s cruel to say the least. If this Priscilla is new, and that one is stale, what makes Priscilla think she won’t become stale at some point and another new person would come in and he would tell her the same about him and her? Common sense is no longer common; it should be classified now as super powers.
How can a relationship be stale when it is not bread? The relationship has expired or he is in a relationship but at the same time not in a relationship? It is obvious this lady is walking into a booby trap.
…to be continued…
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That is the bitter truth in many society . A guy can easily move upon and consider its old relation as stale and started to carry on with other girl. Here the situation is preety unclear as why is still texting his stale relation. That implies he didnt get over to his old relation and he started upon his new taste. He is not only ditching his previous girl but also trying to get into life a newbie.
How come boys alwsys a choser, who can easily ponder upon any girls and the wrong part in terms of girl how easily they get ready to surrender everything who comes along her way. Even without knowing about the past. Relationship is about living and not about compromising and hovering upon from one flower to another.
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Definitely, my friend, The guy didn't wait to heal before starting another with Priscilla and it could also be that he had issues with the stale one and he ran away from addressing it. That is a clear case of unserious and manipulative guy. Guys like these always find the good ladies and sway them with words only to make these supposedly innocent ladies to have a terrible view or opinion about guys.
Self love is important, i think it would be better to love ourself than going into a fake relationship. Fake relationships hurt a lot. Never build a fake relation with others.
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With self-love, we show others how we want to be loved and that is a good thing. I have seen a lot of guys leave ladies because these ladies love themselves and these guys couldn't keep up. Loving yourself naturally filters out of your life the unserious kind of guys.
Of course she would also be a stale later, she already see who's he its better she just cut the relationship off with no apology
Exactly, she needs to cut things off immediately so as not to feel hard done by later. This is an indication of an early warning sign and she should take it serious.