"Nagging in a Relationship!"
Hi Everyone!
Nagging is a diverse one that does not have any particular way of handling it. What works for one may not be the same as what works for the other. However, I have tried a couple of things that seem to have stemmed from the prevalence of nagging in relationships.
Having a proper discussion of those things that are usually at the front burner of these displeasure or mood swings we have. Sitting down and talking some of these things out is a better way of reducing this pattern of always complaining.
It is not just ideal to show our displeasure on a matter without discussing them for a solution.
Another means is the use of one word that has a great impact on us which is "I am sorry". No matter the tempo and anger level, this is a word that allows us to receive calmness. When politely and genuinely said, its effect is felt, and not when it is carelessly said.
Not at all. It is a two-way thing. It is not gender specific but rather what we have here is a situation where one gender is more susceptible to nagging than the other. The female gender is more prone to issues of nagging than the male gender.
Therefore, I will say both genders nags but the female gender is seen doing more in this than the male counterpart.
They mean the same thing, but with a distinct variance from times at which they are done. While "complaining" may mean an act of showing displeasure, grievances, dissatisfaction, etc of one's action; Nagging means a repeated outburst of the same displeasure, grievances, and dissatisfaction.
Therefore, while "complaining" may be seen as a lower level of showing displeasure, "nagging" comes with a higher level of what complaining does.
Knowing that complaining and nagging simply come with an expression of not doing things rightly, or rather infringing on other people's space which comes with discomfort, dissatisfaction, etc. Therefore an open communication pattern is a better recipe for curing it.
Instead of continuing to complain and nag about one's inabilities or incapacities, while not engaging qualitatively and stating what needs to be corrected. Therefore, communication is one key ingredient in ameliorating incessant complaints and nagging.
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It's true that nagging comes from both men and women, I also agree with you that the women seems to nag more than men. Talking about nagging and complaining, I also agree with you that they are two different things but the similar thing here is that it has to do with display of displeasure while the other one which is nagging is a continuous or repeated outburst of the displeasure.
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