Pretending in a relationship.
Today's couples don't take years or a life together, like the time before, I think that for those loves that lasted all life is that there are the phrases "I will love you all life" or "You are the love of my life" and go that they showed.
Today, couples use those words and people every 2.3 months change partners and then, I wonder. Will they be cats? How many lives will they have, each month they love a person? Ejejeje
When you are a man or a woman and we are in the stage of conquest, we present to an appointment as elegant as possible, to give that great first impression. People continue to come out and go "knowing" until they see that they have something in common, you can not be any second separate from each other and decide to live together and is at this point when the couple decides to live or not live together.
If before taking that step, of living together, having children, etc. Both people have shown themselves as they really are, sentimental, passionate, flaws and virtues, as they are in their families and friends, possibly that couple takes years and learn to share a life together, and if on the contrary have only shown "his good side" or pretending Being people who are not really and decide to marry, that marriage or that union will not take more than a few months.
That person who pretended to be a person who was not in the beginning, it is going to tire and start to show how it really is and oh surprise your partner will be like that; -this is not the person I thought I know-, -this person, is not the one I want to spend the rest of my Life- and boom!! They start fights, discussions, remoteness and in the best cases end up separating without "any" remorse.
Then Steemians, if you are in your early beginnings of a relationship, make yourself known as you are, do not pretend to be a person you are not, avoid causing suffering and harm to others, nothing is more wonderful than being accepted, for being as you are!
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I completely agree with you, you have to be genuine, but admits that men are the ones who most disguise themselves as sheep hehehe
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