a good post, talking about right or wrong is not an easy thing because what we are right or wrong according to us is not necessarily right or wrong according to others. before justifying or blaming something we must understand and examine the problem first take the most appropriate conclusions for the problem.
Yes, to know and understand who is right, or wrong, or both or neither, information/knowledge of the situation comes first. But actions exist and those who do wrongs did them. Admitting to being responsible for our actions is the mature things to do in order to progress to making reparations and resolving conflicts we create.