Valentine

Let's talk about the process today.

We assume that loved ones will leave, but understand that it has already happened to us, that's nonsense.
I mean, generally things happened to me, but I prefer to deceive myself.
Just like you deceived yourself in love.
I will pretend it hasn't happened yet.

There is a precedent to this process.
There is a necessary sequence of events for the formation of every human character, as well as a preliminary process for falling in love.
We can call it the right time.

Actually, if the same person appears in other years and circumstances, you won't fall in love. But human psychology is a very strange thing.
I say 'thing'.
Because it's an uncertain structure, damnable.

Since life is a big struggle, you definitely get a wound in life before love.
This is not something you have.
Life surely offers you that wound.
And you're fighting that wound for a while.
You are aware of some wounds.
Some don't even be.
Which we call the subconscious.
After a while after you are scorched with those wounds (this is even for first love. we fall in love to mend the wounds we had as children) you get tired.
Or you are getting better.
In addition, it should be noted that life is something that is lived alone and not beautiful.
If it is good for 3 days, it is a phenomenon that we poison ourselves on the 4th day after a while.
We feel this loneliness in our blood as poisonous to the bone at every possible opportunity.
A little bit of love is an effort to throw out or share this poison, or forget it temporarily with painkillers.

Anyway, one day you treated yourself.
You think your childhood traumas no longer exist.
You think your self-confidence is the ceiling.
You are at the top now.
You feel very, very powerful, you're invinsible!
Because you are healed, you stop fighting with your wounds.
You are strong but you made the biggest mistake.
You thought yourself strong and lowered your guard.
You know, a sword is inserted into the weak point of that 3-headed dragon.
You are that dragon.
You think you have the power to destroy everything.
But what you're doing is just exposing your weak point.

Since you stop dealing with these wounds in the dire of life, you leave that part of your walls open.
Because it is no longer necessary to put guards there for nothing.
Your soul thinks you are at peace with life.

Later, this discovers the new love person deficit, which I can perhaps call the enemy (I said enemy because the number of people you can be friends in the future is low).
She enters through that open door and starts a trade with you.
You start buying and selling things through that open door.
The economy is developing.
Abundance are coming into our walls.
Your soul in your body fades away.
And you are so peaceful in that abundance that you become even more aware that you are the king.
Wealth is getting abundant in the country.

You get sick 4 days you sleep on a quilt mattress.
But when you get better, the 5th day is a relief.
You can understand the difference.
A sharp difference like a knife.
There is even a great difference with the day before.
You say oh what a beautiful thing health.

That's how love is.
Like the patient who got out of bed on the 5th day, a happy healthy process begins with new love as if he regained his health after years.
When you take your hand and look into that person's eyes, you say, what suffering have I had over the years?
How unnecessary it was.
Look how beautiful life is.

Like running from hot sands into cool ocean.
Not very cool yet.
Does not catch cold.
Moreover, it is shallow.
There is no danger of drowning yet.

Maybe we have extended it, but in this process, it may be necessary to touch the miracle that the person you like also liked you at the same time.
It's not like a coming back at backgammon.
Something like winning the lottery.
This is such a low probability.
Sometimes we love even this possibility.
This is the fear that we will not find it again.
Because of the low possibility of this, love is something you have never experienced before. This miracle fills you after a long thirst.

As soon as you recognize the moment of mutual liking, what comes into play is the size of your old wounds.
If you have a huge old wound, this new wonderful feeling of love will meet your fear of loss. All you have to do is separate the two and act like that.
Otherwise, you won't know what to do and you will lose control.

Love is sharply separated.
You know whether you're in love or not.
If a car crashes, for example, your legs are broken, would you not notice it?
That's how love is.
You want her so much that you want her to be with you at all times.
Love is digital.
It is not analog.
You know, the level can be adjusted in analog.
There are levels from 1 to 10.
You turn the sound on and off.
But digital is 1 and 0.
There are either.
There is no fucking either.
The name of what you turn into analogue over time is love.
Love and affection are two very different things.
It can also hate human love.
There is no guarantee that you will love it.

Continue...

Your wounds are so relieved with the new love.

The person who died of high fever while he was lying sick in that bed, got rid of it.
We said a little about your past wounds, your loneliness in life.
Every person has experienced some setbacks in his life.
And some drink more to these bad moments.
You want someone you love to support you.
And it will do you so good for a reason you don't know.
Love consoles you.
Comforts your wounds.

Especially if sex comes into play in the process, what is off.
Male or female psychology does not matter.
If you entrust your body to that person and remain naked in front of them, and you see them naked too, add pleasure to it, you will become an addict.
Making love with love is something invaluable.
The difference between making love without love is like the difference between night and day, winter and summer.

None of these are something you can live in ordinary.
There is a phrase called one night stand, don't believe that the word love is in it.
Its true, it's a one night pleasure.

If there was love, she wouldn't stay with one night.
You would like it over and over.
You couldn't run away like it was a highschool reunion.

If we add up, what was it?
Love is good for an old wound.
If that person turns out to be a good person, she continues to treat me or you.
If it doesn't continue and you're left behind, the digestion process begins.
If you obsess over it, you are fucked.
If you cannot control yourself, you are trying to harm the other party.
If you are a man, you perform power shows according to your level of education.
If you are a woman, you tend to get involved in crime with other small big threats or games.

Why?

Because you're returning to your old wounded state.
Your days of prosperity are coming to an end.
You stay worse because of your digestion. you fall for the famous kubler ross model

There is no point in extending further.
I'm finishing little one.

If you obsess, you can't fix yourself even though you know you're wrong.
And you loathe yourself unless you can fix it.
You who were king maybe 3 months ago.
You are worse than a slave in the dungeon.
In the bottomless wells.
You say not worth it then you find yourself dreaming about it.
It is not easy to throw love out of it.
How could you fix her tickling for him?
You can get into places you can't reach with dental floss.
But there is no such thing as a love thread.

Finally, let's not go without specifying.
There is no successful love.
There is peaceful love.
If you have a peaceful love, this is probably their success, not yours.
Because there is no one who does not make mistakes by falling in love.
There is no one who does not act in ways that are unrelated to himself.
You must stray somewhere.
If you are not a windfall but a big bonus, you still have a peaceful love with that person. Peaceful love is a great blessing.
Know your worth.
Love is a desire at first.
Then it is love.
If you search for new people over and over again, you have no chance to find the excitement of honeymoon months.
You stay like a screw that licks, if you force it.

Love your job. fall in love with your job.
If you experience a pain, maybe you can forget yourself there.
Even if you don't experience pain, you will be successful at your job because you love your job.
For this reason, your love respects you more.

Damn our days without love.
But even more damn about our days of love…