Nice post! You're absolutely right @Nirob. "Relationship is reality". This is why it's easier to get into a relationship than it is to maintain that relationship. When you're not yet in the relationship (still getting to know each other), apparently it's easier to stay up late-night on chat together and have a good time together but when you get in the relationship full time, "you wake up". Reality! You make it work, it becomes a conscious choice.