WEDDING REFLECTION

WEDDING REFLECTION

[For those who are married or unmarried]
USE TO READ UP TO FINISH

Why are people married?
Because they fall in love.
Why is the household then happy?
Is it because of falling in love?

Not...

But because they continue to wake up in love.
Falling in love is easy, 10 minutes can.
But building up love is very difficult, it takes a lifetime ...

Why is falling in love easy?
Because at that time we are blind, mute and deaf to the vices of our partners.
But when entering marriage, nothing can be covered again.

With interactions 24 hours a day 7 days a week, everything is revealed ...
Here lies the difference between falling in love and waking up in love.

Falling in love in a liking.
But waking up to love is needed in a state of irritation.

In a state of annoyance, love is no longer a hug, but in the form of good faith understanding the conflict and jointly seeking solutions that are acceptable to all parties.

Adult love does not save unity, even though there are some sensitive things to be able to express such as financial problems, parents and family or sex problems ... However, whatever the problem is, it needs to be discussed so as not to run away.

The requirement for successful talk is that we can take into account feelings. If husband and wife pay attention to their own feelings, they will hurt each other. If left to run, they can antagonize each other and the household has changed not heaven anymore but hell.

Can this condition be improved?
Of course you can, when each remembers their initial COMMITMENT first whether they want to find a mate or a living enemy. If you are looking for a friend, why is it now hostile?

Finding a mate starts with falling in love. But after that, the biggest portion is building love. Means maturing love so that both parties can correct, negotiate, respect, tolerate, sustain, be loyal, listen, understand, succumb and be responsible.

Want to have a mate?
Fall in love ....
But after that ... wake up in love ... Take care of the initial COMMITMENT.

1. WHEN WILL MARRY
   Don't look for a wife, but look for a mother for our children.
   Don't look for a husband, but look for a father for our children.

2. WHEN APPLYING
   You are not asking the girl's parents, but asking the Lord through the girl's guardian.

3. WHEN MARRIED
   Both of you are not married before the state, but are married before the LORD.

4. WHEN WHILE LIVING FAMILY
   Be aware that the road to be traversed is not through flower-studded roads, but also bushes that are full of thistles & thorns.

5. WHEN THE HOUSEHOLD FIELDS ARE FULL
   Do not let go of each other's hands, but instead hold tightly to the hand.

6. WHEN HAVE HAD CHILDREN
   Do not share your love with your husband / wife and children, but love your wife or husband 100% & love your children 100% each.

7. WHEN YOU ARE HUSBAND
   May be spoiled with your wife but don't forget to get up responsibly if your wife needs your help.

8. WHEN YOU ARE WIFE
   Keep walking gracefully & gently, but always succeed in completing all the work.

9. WHEN EDUCING CHILDREN
   Never think that good parents are parents who never get angry with children, because good parents are honest parents to children.

10. WHEN CHILDREN ARE PROBLEM
    Believe that there is no child who does not want to cooperate with parents, there are children who feel they are not heard by their parents.

11. WHEN THERE IS 'PIL' / Another ideal man.
    Do not drink, suffice husband as a drug.

12. WHEN THERE WAS 'WIL' / Another Ideal Woman.
    Do not obey, enough wife as a port of heart.

13. WHEN CHOOSING FAMILY PORTRAITS
    Choose family portraits of schools that are in the process of growth towards portraits of happy families.

14. WHEN WANT LANGGENG & HARMONIS
    USE FORMULA 7K

Fear of God
Affection
Loyalty
Dialogue communication
Openness
Honesty
Patience

Hopefully Useful for all of us 😘

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