Love and Obsession

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#Firstly , lets quickly run through the meaning of Love and Obsession , To be in love with someone means you have a deep affection towards someone probably an opposite sex , anybody or material things when you are obsessed with someone is when you cant stop thinking about something or someone ,it ranges from both living and sometimes non living thing which one is devoted to such as a celebrity, football , opposite sex etc .

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So many lovers / people who are obsessed with each other always misinterpret it for love , Love and Obsession can be opposite of each other because love sometimes can be healthy and true , it is always a true feeling from the depth of the heart while obsession have a wide feelings of infatuation in it and can be tagged as a naughty and crazy feeling , although they are synonymous to each other but they can never be assume as the same.
Love is a feeling that is uncontrollable which show a readily fondness or tenderness unlike obsession which is just a silly idea that lacks showcasing tenderness to others .

Also , an Obsessive fellow always want what he is obsessed with to be his or her own only , they always feel like they have no freedom , they are restrictive , non permissive ,they over cling ,over attach , they always want to monitor who they are obsessed with , with the fear of not wanting to loose them to someone else and in doing this the obsessed fellow with be filled with much jealousy and are over addictive

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while love on the other hand is not restrictive , its permissive ,filled with joy and less addictive .

Many people that claim to be in love exhibit major character of an obsessed person all on the name of ( i want to secure what belongs to me) not knowing they are only misinterpreting their obsessed characteristics for love .

In summary , the image below says it all

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Treatment
Obsession can be treated medically because it can be regarded sometimes as mental illness but if at a very chronic stage in such a way that its becoming dangerous or a threat then force such as police or use of law and orders that has a legal backing should be opted for to reduce or put a complete stop to it .

I hope this little write up will help a lot of people in differentiating between True Love and Obsessed love
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