What did you learn from your life ?? || Life Lessons
Every day we are learning something new but we rarely notice what we have learned from our life so far. I know our entire life journey is full of experiences and every situation, experience teaches us something. We learn from our mistakes, we learn from our experiences.
I believe every stage or phase of our life is a lesson, as we grow up we become mature to understand our life journey, life goals. Maturity is something that can't be achieved in one day, it takes time. If you think you will learn everything in one day or something magic will happen then you are wrong.
I have mentioned before that my life has been changed drastically in the past few years, I mean it was a sudden change and whole new experience which taught me so many things about life. I struggled a lot and that struggle life made me realize many things of life...
Trust me it took a lot of time to realize my life, the core value of my life. I felt aimless, I was in depression but those moments made me realize that this is not what I meant to be. I have something in me, I have to decide and choose my own way. Doesn't matter whether people will agree with me or not, it doesn't matter whether anyone will support me or not, but I have to take a chance and should take a baby step to face life challenges. I don't know how much I did or what exactly I have done for myself but whatever I did, I am grateful that at least I took a step for myself. If anything bad happens, only I will be responsible but there will be no regret...
“The world is what YOU think of it, so think of it DIFFERENTLY and your life will change.”
― Paul Arden, Whatever You Think, Think the Opposite
All I can say, I took a step for myself after leading my life for others. Recently, one of my friends has got divorced, this is the second time incident that happened to her. I haven't asked her any single reasons for her divorced because I know she is not comfortable talking about it. Of course, she is in pain, society will think there is something wrong with her but no she is perfect. But she chooses the wrong person for her life that's what I felt.
A relationship is a complicated thing that's what I feel always. Obviously, I am not going tow rite about relationships because this is one thing I am not comfortable writing about. My perspective is different and many people won't agree with me which is completely fine. I respect everyone's opinion but I just go with my own thoughts, that is me...
Once upon a time, I used to listen to people, have done what they said, suggested but not anymore...
What I have learned so far :
I am not going to write everything elaborately because if I start writing, this post will never end. So I am going to write the most important lessons in my life...
Family Value :
Nothing can be compared with blood, to be honest. I used to live with my family when I was in my country but after coming here I have realized how important the bonding of blood can be. Especially with my dad and my sister, whatever happens, they are always with me, directly indirectly. Of course, they don't agree with me all the time but family bonding is unbreakable and in the end, it's all about family.
Time Management :
I was very bad at managing time that's why I have wasted so much time in my life which can be utilized properly but it didn't because I wasted it unintentionally. But I was not late, I rearranged my life, I have learned how important time can be though I am very unconcerned about maintaining the relationship, to be honest.
This is interesting because I never made a budget in my life when I used to stay with my family. I earned and bought whatever I wanted, I was careless and I never understood the value of money... But when I started living an independent life, I understood the value of money.
I am a completely independent girl now, I didn't take a single penny from my dad after my graduation. Yes, many people think that I still live on my dad's money but no I don't. I wanted an independent life. If I take my dad's money, my life will be much easier but I don't ask for money because I want to see how far I can go. My dad won't have any problem giving me money, he can take my entire responsibility but I just don't want to take from him.
“You are a divine being. You matter you count. You come from realms of unimaginable power and light, and you will return to those realms.”
― Terence McKenna
A few days ago my dad was telling me please come back home, I have enough here for you, don't do struggle there anymore but I denied. Something was bothering me inside because when I left home, one thing was in my mind, I won't go back to my home until I do something for myself. I don't want to be a failure or look like a failure, I just want to make my dad proud so that he can say " He is my Father... "
“If there's a thing I've learned in my life it's to not be afraid of the responsibility that comes with caring for other people. What we do for love: those things endure. Even if the people you do them for don't”
― Cassandra Clare
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