STRUGGLE TO BE A SUCCESSFUL MAN VS THE PAIN OF A WOMAN AT CHILDBIRTH
What happend today?
Today i had the pleasure of been a witness to one of the most controversial arguments amongst human beings; how easy to be a man or a woman. I went for an appointment and i ran into this group of Highschool teachers in a café; i was evesdropping but in the end one of the ladies had to pull me in to support or oppose the argument.
Feminist sees themselves as not inferior to any man. Men on the other hand thinks females are weaker vessles, in some cultures and society; a woman's voice can't be heard- Not part of decision making.
The question is who bares it all?
Can anything be as painful as the pain of child labour in the life of a man? This was the "KO" of the argument for the guys. But i made my own research and i found things as painful as Childbirth labour; they are Severe Burn, Pain in the Butt(pudinal Neuralagia), Trigeninal Neuralgia(Fothergills Disease) a neuropathic disorder caused by inflammation of the Trigeminal nerve located in the head- from the eye to the jaws, and also cluster headaches, complex regional pain Syndrome(Pain after Surgery). Kidney stones are painful too but can this all be as painful as a woman in labour?
Contractions are like bolt of electricity shocks says Dr.Paul Christo a pain specialist at John Hopkins Hospital and the Host of Radio talk show "Aches and Gains".
People's Opinion
A lot of people would want to disagree that this listed painful experience are probably worse than labour. But then, how many of these individuals had been in labour before? Well, i wouldn't know much except what my sis-law told me after the birth of my godson.
To be a man:
Being a responsible man has it's own pains and bizarre challenges too. To be a responsible man is as hard and harsh as gestation period with childbirth metaphorically speaking. A man isn't just someone that could only impregnate a woman-he is a complex human that can take care of his Wife, family, enviroment and even friends.
Digressing a bit About Responsibilities
The society is faulty today because man, woman-husband&wife takes care of their immediate family alone and not bother about the enviroment and their close neighbour!
Continuing with the pains of being a Responsible man
Talking about the hardshi of men VS The pain of Women at childbirth, espcially the men/boys rising from the ashes-the ones without parents or families to support them while growing up, those who faced life in it's harsh sense at tender ages, those men who dropped out of schools to work and support their siblings/families.
To earn a living, start a life, wt a wife, provide for the family are all the hassles a man must go through. My opinion is to provide everything for my wife and family, if my wife does support and help me- then that is a bonus for me!
NOT REALLY AN ARGUMENT...
The question of being a man or being a woman which is easier is a life question that could only be answered by the living and not the dead...
So which ever gender we all are has it's own perculiarities, male is not better than female and vice versa. It is a priviledge to come as male- female, what ever applies to individual genders reading this could vouch for themselves.
I have seen the good and bad side of being a man and it has made me a bit knowledgeable about life!
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nice post ever seen @oluwoleolaide,
according to my opinion if a woman is just only housewife then the pain she faced during child birth did not compare with man daily facing painful problems.
in the other hand if there is working woman then there is no compare with man becoz woman bear the pain during child birth along with office duty.
True my dear friend, an House wife and a career woman might bear it all!
thanks a lot for read my comment.
Most welcome dear @rabeel
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Good interesting post.......///////
Great..!
@oluwoleolaide Really good post.
Though I dont know how it feels like to be in childs labour but i am pretty sure that women go through a lot than what men goes through
Thats what i thought, no ladies will say otherwise...
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first read whole article then comment on it which is related to it. i dont know what are u saying.
Hello my Friend. Enjoyed your post. Great Job!!! I hope you are doing well. God bless and upvote!!
Love your conclusion
Every gender is best in what they do
The fact remains many men will not cope if they were women and vice-versa
We should learn to appreciate ourselves. Every gender pain is great. None is small
Exactly buddie, the 3 genders with their peculiarities...
yes boss
Been a woman is actually easy but when compared to giving birth,my brother it's not child's play because of the pains they have through . Been a man, is not also easy owing to the fact that you have so many responsibilities on your shoulder. But d truth remains that both d men and women were wired that way right from Adam and eve. So none is easy at all.
Exactly bro, it's not an argument as both gender has its own difficulties...