Learn to love, Learn to live. Learn to forgive, Learn to be free.

in #writing7 years ago

Hello Steemians, What's up?
Let me ask you guys a question. Have you ever loved someone unconditionally? Yes? No? You are truly confused right?
Yeah we are confused, because a human brain always beg for soft corner, it begs for attention, attraction. It begs attention from another human whom he/she is attracted to. When our loved ones not doing exactly the things that we want them to do, our mind goes rapidly against that person. We often lose our self control, we often make them feel bad. Do we really know how to love someone unconditionally? The answer is ''NO''.
Love means sacrifice, we all know about it. But often we need to sacrifice our loved ones for the sake of their well being, it's the bitter truth. What we do in that situation. We force ourselves to not to do this kind of Nobel things. Because we want to be loved than to loving someone unconditionally. Love is complicated.

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It's so hard to get in control with our minds. Mind wants more comfort and there is no ending. When someone love us the way we want, we become more cruel to them. At that time we hurt them the most. By hurting their feelings we lose that kind of love forever. There is no way left to bring back those feelings. One thing is clear love is always one sided, no matter how much attached or committed you are.
You just need to learn how to live. Love makes a life colorful. Now it's in your hand what color you are going to put in your life. To make a love more powerful sometimes we need to take a break, we need to stay awake, we need to stay away from each other to bring our hearts closer.


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A little effort in right time can make us whole for to fight together in bad times. But when you miss to put that effort in right time, this can make you all alone to fight on in bad situation. The choice is your, when you fall in love stay wake.
Yeah love is simple but complicated.

Learn to forgive
Often things go wrong when we are together, often we hurt each other without thinking about, what it is going to cost us. We often hurt each other so bad for the sake of our ego's satisfaction. We forget that we are hurting the person that we think we love the most. A deep breath can take all the pressure out of our body. But we chose to fight with each other to solve the issue. How can we bring peace when we don't know how to forgive?
Forget the flaw, forgive the person. No one is 100% perfect. And love isn't based on perfection. It based on faith.


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Just learn how to sacrifice. Just learn how to forgive and forget. Fight the situation together. Have faith and trust on each other.

When the person you that think loves you, they feel caged with you. If they no longer want to be a part in your life. Do not try to force them to stay. Every thing in this world happens for a reason. You never know what is waiting on which bend of life. Move on by loving yourself. Just be free. Like the way we pack our bag an return back home after a great beautiful journey.


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For some moment it will feel like you are a dead animal. But eventually you are everything on your own. It will just time to get back on everything. Stand alone cry alone but don't lose faith.
When the winds will pull the cloud from your sky, the sky will shine again. There should be no stopping in our life until death. I believe this line from the core of my heart.


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Let the bad things move away from you. It have arrived naturally and it will move naturally. Do not try to force it by harming yourself. One thing for sure no matter what happens in life you will be able to walk again.

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