How to BE always the Same in any situation!!

nirolf95 (54)in #writing • 7 years ago (edited)

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Who are you when no one is watching?

Would it not be nice to be yourself even when others look?

That's a pretty good question right?

We are ourselves when we start laughing at nothing, dancing as crazy on our favorite songs and any other action which you would not usually do because someone is watching. And when someone looks at you, the voice into your head starts telling you to not do this or that and this is the moment when we're blocking ourselves right away.

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Why are we blocked even though in the inside we feel that we want to do that certain action? Simple. Because we are conditioned to behave in a certain way .... to look the way that we are not.

And how does all this happen? Well ... in such a subtle way you do not even notice it but you goes in. Every day we are bombarded with all kinds of information available from advertisers who tell you to buy this and that so as to become more beautiful / and thus induce us the idea that we are not enough, and TV series... from which we take example from the characters about how we behave thus going to obscure what we are actually in reality.

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All this in us creates a sense of unease that leads us to seek a solution... solution that we are always looking for on the outside ... so we buy more things by believing that they will make us feel better or go looking always for others approval for our fictitious character.

Continuing this way, you will endlessly go on unless you start looking at another side. Where will you ask. To your inside!
We have been so focused on finding a solution outside that we have forgotten that everything starts from the inside!

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How does it work then? Here, however, is not that simple as you have to do all the work, but it's worth trying it! You need to recreate the connection with your body ... to appreciate yourself for what you are, so also for all your defects. Love yourself for what you are. Create that state of love for yourself. Focus on it in your mind! Everything starts from there

This thing will takes a while. But if you really want to, you will take your time: D
Start listening to what you feel to do and if your voice tells you what are you doing?!? Do you not see that everyone looks at you?!? It's not normal!!

Well let it talk and simply affirm in your head with the conviction that you can do it, you must believe it! Focus on what you want to do ... and I too know, but, once you've done that ... you will tell yourself that it was worth it!