How Letting Go Of Judgement Let's You Embrace The Experience

in #writing7 years ago

Sometimes our work is not holding up to our standards and we take the route of self-judgement. Or, even when someone else's work isn't quite up to our own defined standards, we take the route of placing judgement unto them and their work.

I find this to be quite a dysfunctional way of living life. Constantly beating ourselves or someone else up. Because that is what judgement essentially does, hey?

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(Acrylic Painting I did, titled "Embracing The Experience")

This is the story of the picture you see here. I wasn't satisfied with it and I started judging myself and my work. Instead of seeing it as the creation that I did from a place inside myself called "Self-Expression". Realizing that, yes, especially with new things we learn we will not immediately produce the best of results and creations. But to put ourselves down and discourage ourselves, or others is only going to inhibit, sabotage and rot the experience, learning, expanding and joy that would have been there, experienced by self, if we but decided to not judge ourselves and instead embrace our work, our expression, our creativity and whatever the result, the creation of such is, not letting it define us.

A life without self-judgement and judgement of others is truly something else, something remarkable. I started experiencing glimpses of it in the past 10 years, and more and more by the day. It is like a different, better world and experience that is right here, inside of us. Ready to be 'unleashed', discovered and be part of our inner world if we but allow us to drop, to let-go of the learned tendencies and patterns to judge, and instead express ourselves and our creativity freely. Making sure, that at the center of all self-expression is the will and readiness to learn from everything we do in day to day living and use it to expand and become better individuals.

Thank you!
Do well,
Nebi :)

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Beautiful! Is this based of a place you saw in real life?

Hi Raj, thanks ! It's not a real place, I just painted it from my mind, so to speak. :)

Wow Very good Painting Love it 💖❤ Upvoted ^ ^

ill be happy if you would check my work of drawing ^ ^
https://steemit.com/@cuteve

Hey Eve!! Thanks for your words and upvote, much appreciated! :)

I checked your drawings out and MAN! - Your drawing skill is like insanely good! I am working on bettering my drawing skills with pencil and paper, and would like mine to be as good as yours in time! :)

And you can be good as you wish !!! Just believe in your self and a lot of practice
Thank you so much <3

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