The thought of the death of Chinese students overseas（中国留学生海外遇害的深思）

In recent days, the high-profile Peking University female master zhang yingying incident shocked the Chinese people at home and abroad. On June 9, 2017, zhang visited the university of Illinois at urbana-champaign.
On June 9,Chicago time,at around 14 o,clock, zhang yingying disappeared into view after a black Saturn limousine on north guwen road,and people could no longer contact zhang yingying. t's been nearly a month since the incident, and U.S. law enforcement officials have speculated that the chapter may have been killed, and we're all looking forward to a miracle that will make her alive.
Why would such an event happen on a girl of the age of 26, who has studied a master's degree in Peking University?We recall that in recent years, Chinese students have been killed in foreign countries, deeply affecting their hearts...
In June 2009, yu zhang, a Chinese female student in Australia, was found dead shortly after missing a lift from a stranger.
In May 2010, yao yu, a Chinese student from the United States, died after being raped in a hutong in New York City by a metal tube.
A Chinese female student at a Canadian university was attacked and killed by a white man in April 2011. There have been many fruitless pursuits before this incident.
In May 2012, Lin jun, a Chinese student studying at Concordia university in Montreal, Canada, was killed, and the body was mutilated and eaten by suspects. The method was extremely cruel.
In May 2014, duan fu, a 21-year-old Chinese student, was killed when he collided with a hyundai car in a ferrari sports car in the us state of California due to his high-profile flaunt wealth.
In September 2015, sun peng, a 20-year-old Chinese second-generation student, was killed in a party meeting with a white bentley in vancouver, Canada.
In May 2016, li Yang jie, who studied in Germany, was found dead . she was raped and killed by a couple.
In August 2016, Chinese students bi xi xi studying abroad in Europe, was beaten to death by her boyfriend due to a careless friendship.
While we're lamenting, we can't help but reflect on our education. What's the difference between education and education from abroad?Our parents raise us, study, study, go to college, go abroad, and the end goal is not to send us to a road of no return, but to lead a better life, but....... What makes our parents so sad about this event? Most of the people involved in the accident are the only children in the family. They could have lived an enviable life, but they didn't.We can't help but ask ourselves, if life can recome, whether we still go abroad? If life can start again, should we put our study first? If all become impossible, can we only have a heavy sigh?
Whether we can do is put our own safety as the first, life is really valuable, every person's life only has once, and mostly they are still in the flower season, they have died in this way, How it can let a person has to meet stinging pain? The accident happened to others, it was a story, it happened to ourself, it was a tragedy. I hope this tragedy doesn't happen again .

Reflection 1:

our safety education.

from childhood we were educated to love our motherland, love our people, love study, day day up. While watching foreign children, Security education is the top priority, not to talk with strangers, to exercise their own practical ability, to cultivate a responsible spirit.
In Japan'sprimary school, when the students eat at noon,they will bring the the food by themself ,They were told to exercise the practical ability and ability to survive. on the contrary , we give the students remedial homeworks ! tell them to study, study , and study, as long as you study well, as long as you got high marks, parents can promise them any conditions they want . It made us a little emperor and they live on the labour of others. Such a person, after entering the society, they will not know what to do when they meet with matters.

If a person doesn't even have a sense of security in his own life,what should we learn ?What is the ultimate purpose of our study?So,We will put our safety education first, wherever we are. Some people say that if you think of your body as 1, then other things like wealth,career,everything else is zero,because there is nobody,there is no meaning to the rest, A man is born with nothing to carry, and he does not carry anything when he dies.

Reflection 2:

our life habit, life quality.

I think no matter how rich the life of our family is, we should keep the simple life style, don't high-profile flaunt wealth,
intangible, so will bring us unnecessary disaster.Because there are a ot of people who hate the rich, you rich, why? And even if others are not jealous, they may bring evil to their own carelessness. Like the President of the American facebook,the billionaire xiao zha,His life is very simple,he worn the same clothes,bought several same pieces,not like some people pursue the brand.If you can't spend your money, donate. Donated to the poor people in the world, poor children,their education,their lives,like a dry land are waiting to be moist.Most of the world's rich, when they are about to die, now of wills, put the money out behind him,I think,do it very well. This will not only make our children and grandchildren exercise their own habits,but also bring more blessings to their families,and avoid many disasters caused by their wealth.

Reflection 3:

our social habits.

There is an old saying in China：Isn't it a pleasure to have friends from afar？We advocate dating, but must have good dating habits, to pay the good character, positive energy is strong. be careful to make friends, promiscuity, even make some man of flawed character,wo will also bring you disaster.There are many examples.In the future society,when the earth becomes a village, we need to deal with more people, because the customs is different, language is impassability, all sorts of misunderstanding,bound to happen one way or the other. the woods are big,and there are all kinds of birds. Associety moves toward scivilization and progress although,we still should pay more attention to ourselves to avoid such a tragedy.When the bad news comes, we should not only grieve, but also be a lesson, more reflective, to avoid a similar incident in the future!

近日来，沸沸扬扬的北大女硕士章莹颖事件，震惊了海内外的中国华人。2017年6月9日，章去美国伊利诺伊大学香槟分校访问.芝加哥时间6月9日14点左右，章莹颖在北古温大道上了一辆黑色的土星轿车后，消失在了人们的视野中，人们再也联系不上章莹颖了.....

目前距离事件发生已经近一个月了，据美国执法部门推测，章有可能已经遇害，我们大家更期待奇迹的发生，希望她能生还。一个正处于26岁花季的年龄的人，一个念过北大硕士的人，为什么还会发生此类事件？

近几年来，中国留学生不断的在国外遇害事件，深深的牵动了国人的心.....

2009年6月，在澳洲中国女留学生余璋因搭乘陌生人便车，失踪后不久被发现遇害身亡。

2010年5月，赴美仅2个月的中国留学生姚宇在纽约一条胡同被强奸后，被一根金属管敲击头部导致死亡。

2011年4月，加拿大某大学一中国女留学生柳乾遭遇一白人男子袭击死亡。曾多次追求柳未果。

2012年5月，在加拿大蒙特利尔康科迪亚大学就读的中国留学生林俊遭遇分尸遇害，尸体被犯罪嫌疑人肢解，吃掉，手段极其残忍。

2014年5月，21岁中国留学生段夫因其高调炫富导致其惹祸上身，在美国加利福尼亚驾驶一辆法拉利跑车与一辆现代车相撞身亡。

2015年9月，20岁的中国富二代留学生孙鹏在加拿大温哥华驾驶白色宾利车参加一场派对遭遇绑票遇害。

2016年5月，在德国留学的李杨洁因夜跑未归，后被发现死亡，死因为被一对情侣奸杀。

2016年8月，旅欧留学生毕习习因交友不慎，被男友殴打致死。

我们在扼腕叹息的同时，不禁反思我们的教育。从小到大，我们的教育与国外的教育有什么不同？

我们的父母培养我们，学习，念书，考大学，出国，最终的目的不是送我们去一条不归路，而是，要我们能够过上更好的生活，然而...出现这样令人悲痛的事件，让我们的父母情何以堪？出事的大多人中，都是家里的独生子女，他们品学兼优，生活优渥...本来可以过上让人羡慕的生活，结果却事与愿违。

我们不禁试问，假如，生活可以重来，我们是否还要出国？
假如生命可以重新开始，我们是否还要把我们的学习放在第一位？
假如，太多的假如，都成为了不可能的时候，难道我们就只有沉重的叹息吗？
我们是否能时时处处把自己的安全放在第一位?

生命诚可贵，每一个人的生命只有一次，而且大多还处于花季，就这样夭折了，能不让人痛彻心扉吗？
事故发生在别人的身上，那是故事，事故发生在自己的身上，那是悲剧。但愿这样的悲剧不要在一而再，再而三的重演。

反思一：我们的安全教育，从小就教育我们要热爱祖国，热爱人民，好好学习，天天向上。
而看国外的小朋友，从小被教育要注意安全，不要和陌生人说话，要锻炼自己的动手能力，培养负责任的精神。日本的小学生在上学的时候，中午吃饭的时候，由小学生负责打饭， 锻炼小学生的动手能力，生存能力，而我们，却是补课，补课，再补课，学习，学习，再学习，只要你学习成绩好了，只要你考高分了，那么什么条件父母都可以答应。把我们造就成了一个衣来伸手，饭来张口的小皇帝。这样的人，到社会以后，一遇到什么事就会手无足措，不知道该怎么办？

如果一个人连自己的生命都没有安全感，都不重视，那么我们要学习干什么？
我们学习的最终目的是干什么？

我们不论何时何地，都要把我们的安全教育放在第一位。有人说如果把身体当做1，那么其他诸如财富，事业，啥的都是0，因为没有身体，其余都没有意义，那些东西生不带来，死不带去。

反思二：我们的生活习惯，生活素养，我觉的不管我们家庭的生活是多么的富裕，我们都应该保持简朴的生活作风，不要高调炫富，这样无形当中，会给我们带来不必要的灾难。因为有好多仇视族，你富了，凭什么？况且即使别人不嫉妒，也会给因自己的不小心，而带来祸患。像美国脸书的总裁小巴，资产亿万，生活却十分简单，同样的衣服，买了好几件，留换着穿，而不是像有些人追求品牌。如果真的钱多花不了，那么，捐赠。捐给世界上那些贫困的人，贫困的儿童，他们的教育，他们的生活，就像是一片干涸的土地，等待你去滋润.世界上的大多富豪，现在都在他们即将离世的时候，立下遗嘱，把身后的财富捐赠出去。我觉得，这样做非常好。这样做不仅使我们的子孙要锻炼靠自己的习惯，更给家人带来的福分，免去很多因为财富，而带来的灾难。

反思三：我们的社交习惯。中国素来就有那句话：有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎？我们崇尚交友，但一定要有好的交友习惯，要交就交那些品德良好，正能量强的人，交友要慎重，滥交，甚至交一些品德有缺陷的人，也会带给你灾难。这样的例子数不胜数。

未来社会，当地球变成了一个村子的时候，我们需要跟更多形形色色的人打交道，因为风俗习惯不同，因为语言的不通，因为各种误解，难免会发生这样或那样的事件。林子大了，什么鸟都有。在社会逐渐走向文明，逐渐进步的今天，我们还应该靠我们自己去多加注意，以避免这样，或那样悲剧发生。当噩耗传来，我们不应仅仅是悲痛，更应该是教训，更应该是反思，才能避免以后类似的事件发生!