“We Need Your Stories” — Motivation to Keep Writing

in #writing5 years ago

I just returned from my first writers’ conference and I’ve got all the feels. I have a jumble of ideas in my head, a slew of fabulous notes, and revisions planned to make my manuscripts even better.

I also have an introvert hangover from spending so much time talking with amazing people. Apparently all that learning is going to require rest and time to process, though I'm doing better than yesterday, which was spent mainly on the couch. At least I'm getting a blog post out today.

Baby steps and self-care, right?

I honestly don’t know where to start in my quest to share the experience with you. I could gush about each keynote speaker and workshop presenter, but there’s too much information and I’ll probably just get overwhelmed.

So, let me focus on a few of the highlights over my next blog posts…

Am I Good Enough?


Takeaways from the Surrey International Writers’ Conference (Part 1)

Over the past weekend, I heard a number of presenters say how special the SiWC is, in part because they have meals in which attendees and presenters mingle, but especially because there is such a friendly atmosphere. I left feeling like I'd been welcomed into a family.

There were keynotes each morning and evening, but what was really nice was having conversations over dinner or in the banquet lineup with established authors and literary agents who, rather than having a holier-than-thou attitude, were approachable people with whom I was able to connect. It took some of the fear out of being a writer, and reminded me that each person is on their own journey, but, because we understand each other, us writers and lovers of books are also in it together.


Eileen Cook’s Keynote

Friday evening, author Eileen Cook gave a keynote speech that had many of us in tears. She spoke of how each of us writes our salvation, in a way, because no matter how challenging life can be, stories are part of what gets us through.

Eileen mentioned how our brains light up when we read stories. She brought up Dead Poet’s Society, a movie that's about a teacher changing student’s lives by inviting them to live more fully. It reminded me how much that movie impacted me when I first watched it; how I vowed to “suck the marrow from life,” and adopted “carpe diem” as one of my go-to sayings.

As Eileen shared how this year has been difficult for her personally, she connected with us on a human level. So many of us struggle. That’s part of being alive, embodied on this journey of being a person. But her overarching message was one that I needed right then.

She said, “We need your stories. I need your stories.”

This is what I needed to hear, because I went to this conference not sure if there was any point in keeping up with this writing thing. Not that I could stop writing, because it pours out of my soul, but I was swimming in imposter syndrome and the growing pile of rejections that goes with the territory of being brave enough to try your hand at the publishing industry.

My takeaway from Eileen’s keynote was to re-ground myself in the truth I already knew:

Stories inspire. They show us we’re not alone. They give us a way to escape. They remind us that the characters we love the most, those we root for to the bitter end (or maybe a Happily Ever After), are the ones who’ve been through hell and not only survived, but grew stronger—even if they grew more vulnerable at the same time.

Stories remind us that we’re all vulnerable, and that touching that most tender place in ourselves and facing our fears is where the healing and transformation happens. And each person's story adds something vital to the whole.


I’m hoping to do a series of blog posts sharing some of the things I learned from the Surrey International Writers’ Conference. If you’re a writer, I highly suggest checking the conference out. The webpage is siwc.ca, the dates for next year are Oct 23-25, and registration opens in June.

Thanks for reading!

Whatever happens, keep singing your song!

Peace. @katrina-ariel

Katrina Ariel
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Author bio: Katrina Ariel is an old-soul rebel, musician, tree-hugging yogini, and mama bear to twins. Author of Yoga for Dragon Riders (non-fiction) and Wild Horse Heart (romance), she's another free-spirit swimming in the ocean of life. Check out her music here: https://choon.co/artists/katrina-ariel/


Visit Katrina’s author website to learn more about her books and music.

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Wow... It seems like you really got what you needed in spirit on that writing conference 😊
Such amazing inspiration and Im so glad you found some knew friends.
Your writing is always amazing and captivating, you write in ways that we can relate to, also understand.
I'm so glad you got some of your fear to go away and you have a story to tell just as the rest of them. Sounds like that Elieen Lady knew what she was talking about and touched you 😊
Im glad you got to hear words that made you realize that you definitly should keep writing, and I hope you know how appriciated you are Love 😘

I cant wait to hear more about this and did you get a chance to talk about your work to?
Thank you for sharing this with us and Im sooo happy for you.
Much love to You amazing Lady 🤗😘💋🌹❤️

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Aw, thank you so much! Your steady encouragement means the world, my friend. Knowing that you can relate to my writing is so important, too, because good writing pulls us in and shows us a part of ourselves.

I did get a chance to talk to a couple of industry professionals about my work, and their feedback was super helpful! Thanks again for your thoughtful comment and for always being there to cheer me on. You're amazing!!!

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So glad you’re grooving on the writing, @katrina-ariel!

Honestly, I haven't really been grooving on the writing in a while, but taking steps forward. And yes, a conference is an amazing way to refresh! Thanks for the kind comment. :)

Well then I’m glad you’re going to start grooving On the writing! 😁


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And it all began years ago with those cheap pulpy Historical Romances as my own personal ESCAPE and for maybe an hour of quiet me time I was in another world away from my depressing circumstances and forget my dreary existence. I can still remember the smell of those old paperbacks.

Books are such a great escape. I completely agree.

sure you're good enough and you're motivated to be better!

Indeed! Sometimes it takes remembering who we are to step up to the next level.

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