What Can Parents Do to Help With Their Child's Studies?
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It is a parent's responsibility to send their child to school and give him a proper education that he can use to achieve his dreams. But is paying for your child's tuition fee, buying him school supplies and uniforms and giving him allowance enough to say that you have already helped your child have a good education? I guess no. You should go way beyond financial matters. There has to be a moral support along the way. You have to continuously motivate your child to keep on going because school works can be pretty stressful and could leave your child burned out.
Some kids nowadays are more interested in other trivial matters instead of focusing on their studies. They could get too distracted on other things and it is important that as parents, you can keep their eyes focused on their goals and that is to finish their studies. I am not a parent nor a child expert. But here are a few things that I know to help keep your child motivated to focus on their studies:
- Learn to appreciate even their small achievements.
If you are lucky enough to have a child who exerts effort to excel at school, then you should appreciate.
- Reward him.
In that way, he'd become more motivated to do well in school because he has something to look forward to aside from good grades.
- Don't put too much pressure on your child.
Remind him that he doesn't need to be an honor student or whatsoever to make you proud. Assure him that as long as he did his best, you'd be happy on whatever the result would be on his studies. Avoid making him feel burdened of meeting your expectations.
- Keep a strong and close relationship with your child.
Don't be too stiff or strict. Make him feel like you're his bestfriend so he wouldn't hesitate to confide to you even on small things. Get to know his friends as well so you'd know if they're a good influence to your child.
- Don't scold your child too much.
It is pretty normal to lose your patience when things get a bit out of hand. But always make sure that you're being careful with your words. You wouldn't want to hurt your child's feelings, would you? It is more effective if you rarely reprimand him because your words would have a stronger effect on him the moment you speak up about his wrong doings.
Always remember that being a parent is a huge responsibility and definitely not an easy one. But very rewarding, indeed. It is your pride as a parent if you were able to raise your child well and has equipped him with a good education that he can use as his armour in life's battles. The things I've mentioned might not be effective to all parents but we all have one common goal: make then understand the importance of studies and help them keep focused on it.
Monitor your child's academic performance. Talk to his teachers, attend parent-teacher meetings and be involved with school activities as much as possible. Make your child feel that you have his back and he's not alone because you would support him all throughout his journey.
What are some other tips you can share to parents to help their child's studies?
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Wow, great article. Children needs more and more qualities just as you have stated in other to excel academically. You don't expect to discourage a child and still expect him or her to perform.