NOT MY PERSONALITY

Are you a shy person, do you feel insecure about yourself? Are you timid and reserved in nature? have you tried to overcome it and you find it difficult beacuse you feel you are lacking in lots of areas and so cant stand confidently to speak in public? Now listen, the goodnews is, shyness is not a personality, its just an obstacle. You can't be blamed for being born a bit shyer than the average person, but it's something that you can overcome with effort in your part and With a fresh mindset as Well, I used to be a shy person. But shook it off when I realized the people I'm shy of are as insecure as I am. Shook it off when the reality of my identity was revealed in Christ, A child of the everlasting Father, full of the attributes of God.

Shook it off when I knew that people listen and respect a man who brings solutions
...so I began to create solutions. I told myself shyness is not my personality.
Stopped being shy when I realised that most of society is confused & depressed, seeking for direction and all that sarcasm & fronting is a mask. All I see now is eager persons with interesting stories to read in them
For shy people like me out there, Look out and try to understand society through the single persons you see daily. Each person has his fears, dreams, failures, weaknesses, disappointments, etc. All of these makes every man to be in need of relationship, he needs other people to stand firm, to fill in his inadequacies. And this is the state of everyone. All this lumped together makes society a place of interdependent people. ...sheeps looking for a shepherd to help show them what they ought to do about the chaos in their lives.
Therefore become self-aware, work on your strengths, stop paying too much attention to your weaknesses. Everyone has a weakness. No one is perfect. Stop feeling too insecure about your skills or self image. Learn to love yourself the way you are, that is the greatest love of all. Have a positive outlook, don't be afraid to talk about yourself, make friends and be yourself. It will go a long way to boost your self esteem and make you more confident.

Its me, @evelyniroh, a humble steemian.
Inspired to make this post by a friend Emmanuel Ititim

Thanks for reading.