Types of relationship you find yourself in - which are you?

in #writing6 years ago (edited)

Many wonder what kinda partner they have and get confused on decisions to make. They don't know what relationship they are in or how to manage their relationships.

Let’s start by figuring out which is which, and where the probability of a happy marriage in your future falls.
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I have four 4 types of relationships



1. The conflict-ridden but oh so in love types
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Its also known as the on-again, off-again couples. If you fall under this type, then likely you might even make the block folio dizzy with your ups and downs, back and front relationship. Your commitment to one another depends on how u act or who you are — one minute you're hot, the next cold.

Different conflict pushes you apart, but then love drives you right back into each other’s arms. When you’re together, you’re really together like together, but when you’re not, you’re definitely not. there are certain urge that keeps pulling you back to the person you’re crazy for, despite the obvious bumps in the road of your relationship.

This passionate romance may not exactly be doomed for failure, but according to steve rogulsky,

it “may not be sustainable in the long-term.”

It can be very hectic to keep this kind of relationship because you never know from one day to the next what might happen.
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If by any chance your commitment level to your partner falls when you’ve had an argument, then you’ll need to examine where you’re at and make better decisions if you want a lasting relationship with that person .


2. You’re all about the drama, drama, drama.
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First of all, do you and your partner find yourselves often in the middle of some new issue or problem? Do you often make urge of the moment and decisions based on issues outside of your relationship? Or do you spend more of your time with your own friends, doing your own things without really consulting one another or trying to do things as a couple? Then you’re in a dramatic relationship, big time super story relationship.

From rogolsky interpretation

“These couples have a lot of ups and downs, and their commitment swings wilily." .

That is, if you’re the sort of person that focuses on the negative and allows other factors outside of your relationship to drive your opinion of your partner, then you’re going to be focused on other factors around you., which can make you both more likely to fight as well as to break up.
Try to find out where you failed as a partner.

Examinations about personality abound all over the internet , and it seems that everyone is looking for a simple way to answer carefully selected questions and find out secrets about themselves.
Even persistent articles and quiz designed to let you in on the potential for a lasting bond with your love , and to find out the likelihood of your relationship to succeed .
Sometimes it seems like everywhere you go,you find someone either looking for love or trying to figure out if the love they’ve found is real.
Lol songs from Celine Dion really ignites the fire,to know and love more.

To be honest with you,all relationships aren’t equal, people or science rather found a way to categorize the boundaries, commitment of your love, the happiness and rewarding sensations you feel into specific groups for our subjective judging pleasure.

If youre in a dramatic relationship, i suggest that you have a rethink to decisions you’re making, and do it fast, because people in such relationships are two times as likely as the others to break up.


3. You’re both social butterflies.
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Does your perfect night out with you involve yourself and a bunch of your friends that you all share together? Do social activity become a hub of your relationship because you do it together rather than separate and go your own ways? Then this is a socially-based relationship. And it last longer because of the people and things you share together.

According to steve rogulsky

“Having mutual friends makes people in these couples feel closer and more committed.”

You’ll might end up being a pretty stable couple with high levels of happiness and friendship because your partner is also someone that you enjoy going out with ,taking photographs of things happening and lots more.

These kind of people go into long-term relationships, they share things that will make their relationship more likely to last.


4. You’re too focused on your partner, and it shows
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You both love spending time with each other . Youre happy about everything done together,you share same hobbies and fun times , and that special bonding time actually makes you to likely have a happier relationship in the future.

People like these do not let outsiders influence the decisions that they make, and they likely talk out their issues with one another and are more thoughtful about moving forward. you relish time with your partner, and make sure that you’re putting each other first.

This kind of relationship is called the partner-focused relationship.
Its the most satisfying according to study.


Why i categorize these relationships, is because I want to help you recognize where you’re currently at and where you want to be.

It will help you think about the longevity of your relationship in its current state and how you can either keep moving it forward with good decisions ,how you can better it by aiming for positive goals together or rather let it aim at negative goals together

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@enoye this is lovely

I think i would fall in the number 1 class conflict ridden but so inlove 😊

Its d best for me...we fight and settle

Lol its nice sha that you come back cause of the love you shared but honestly you cant predict what will happen next o.
Because its either u end up together or get separated.
Thanks for reading.

@enoye yeah but the chances of we staying together is high...bcos even when we fight for a while we will miss each other and want to come back...that is where love plays it part and i bet you that kind of love is crazy ( i have been dr and i am sure you have been dr too) 😊✌

Lol I wish I was. Am currently not in a relationship,single but not searching. My heart belongs to someone. 🔥

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