ADSACTLY WRITING; I AM A WOMAN!!!
So what? I get into an arguement with a man, he slaps me, i feel the pain, yet they tell me i provoked him. I should have been quiet, i should have been patient, i should apologize to him. I get into an arguement with a man, i slap him, they tell me i have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, i should have been patient. I should apologize. Because i am a woman, i don't have the right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly propotional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality..... Because i am a woman, my husband cheat on me, i am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that, "it is in their nature to cheat, i should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him" i cheat, and i am call a whore, i committed abormination, i have no rigth to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support i lack at home, i am irresponsible mother. So i am sent packing from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. Henceforth i forbbiden from seeing my two older children, i'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because i'm a woman. He is 28 and runs a company, he's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age. I'm 28 and i run a company " Hmmmm........ She i not even married, unserious, can not order her prioreties right, hutsler, loves money, let her go and get a husband o". And i wonder if beeing successful has anything to do with gender. Because i am woman,mi am not allowed to have wits or prodigy, i cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated without a man beside me. Then i am tagged a generous leg operner, a "runs girl". They never see the posibility that i have to actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where i am because i am a woman. A man looses his wife to death and remarry a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living. A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4years, " aaah! so early"? Are you sure she wasn't sleeping with thta man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband.she is a witch! Because she is a woman. Because i'm a woman this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me, but don't forget that i am woman, it does not make less human!!! :WHO IS A WOMAN????? When she is quiet, many things are running through her mind. When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much inspite of being taken for granted. When she says i stand by you, she will stand by you like a solid rock. Nerver hurt her or take her by granted, a very heart touching message by a woman. Someone asked her, Are you a working woman or a housewife? She replied, Yes, i am a full time working house wife. I work 24hrs of the day, I'm a Mum. I'm Wife. I'm Daughter. I'm a Daughter-in-law. I'm an Alarm clock. I'm a Cook. I'm a Maid. I'm a Teacher. I'm a waiterss. I'm Nanny. I'm a Nurse. I'ma Handywoman. I'm a Security officer. I'm a Counsellor. I'm a Comforter. I don't get holidays. I don't get sick leave. I don't get day off. I work through day and night. I'm on call all hours and get paid with a sentece. "WHAT DO YOU DO ALL DAY??". This is dedicated to all woman*** A woman has the most unique character like salt! Her presence is never remembered, but her absence makes all things tasteless. Pass it to all the Lovely ladies... Your mother.. Your wife, Your daughters, Your sisters , and Your friends.